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Book of Job 42

Calvary Chapel Bible College

May 18, 2022

 

Homework

No Memory verse

Pericope Project #2 is due

 

Mars Hill Discussion

Any highlights from this week’s listening?

 

What did you feel about all the negative fall out from the Mars Hill collapse?

The staff members who were left hanging.

Relationships blown up

 

There was a line in the episode, “Don’t sound like Job’s friends.  Learn to sit and listen in silence”.

 

Would you consider Mars Hill a “cult”?  If yes, how so? (only because of the emotional manipulation, Mark telling people he was their “dad”)

 

 

Introduction

Job is going through the worst time anyone could imagine.

He’s lost all his possessions.

His children have died.

His health has failed.

What makes all this even more confusing is that Job is a good guy.

God has decided to allow Job to go through this difficulty because He is proud of Job, not mad at him.

God wants to show the world what a godly man will do when he is going through a difficult time.

Keep a couple of things in mind as we study Job:

Sometimes Job is wrong in his conclusions.

Sometimes Job’s friends are also wrong.

They can even say things that are true, but they are just not true about Job.

Be careful about building doctrine upon some of the things said in the book of Job.

Neither Job’s words nor those of his friends are meant to build doctrinal truths on.
They simply show us how people respond to difficulty.

After a series of debates between Job and his friends over trying to figure out why Job has gone through such difficulty, God showed up.

(Job 38:2 NKJV) “Who is this who darkens counsel By words without knowledge?

God is saying that Job simply doesn’t know what he’s talking about.
God went on to challenge Job with a brief look into God’s vast creation and just who it is that takes care of it all … God.

Job 42 Restoration

:1 Then Job answered the Lord and said:

:2 “I know that You can do everything, And that no purpose of Yours can be withheld from You.

:2 You can do everything

Lesson

God’s Sovereignty

(keyword)
Often God works in our lives and we are unaware of the extent of His actions.
Illustration

There was a mother cat, with a baby kitten in her mouth, trying unsuccessfully to get across a busy New York City intersection. She would meander timidly out into the traffic and then dart back to the curb when nearly hit by a passing car. A traffic policeman in the center of the intersection, seeing her plight, thrust up his hands to stop traffic in both directions. The anxious cat scampered across to the other side and disappeared down an alley.

The cat had no idea that the authority of the New York City Police Department had been called upon to enable her to get safely across the street.

Though we want to blame God for all the bad things in our lives, I wonder how often He has been working to keep us safe.
God can do anything.
God will do whatever He wants to.
The problem is that knowing this doesn’t help answer the question “why”.
We will talk more about the “why” of trials later.
Part of us still would like to know why we are going through what we’re going through.
If we’re not careful, we can misunderstand what God is trying to do
Video:  Disney Short – “Runaway” by Susan Yung.
It helps to know that He also loves us.
If we were unsure that He loves us, we might wonder why God seems to be trying to destroy us.
But the truth is, God does indeed love us.
(John 15:13 NKJV) Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends.
(Romans 5:8 NKJV) But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
(1 John 3:16 NKJV) By this we know love, because He laid down His life for us. And we also ought to lay down our lives for the brethren.
(Romans 8:35–39 NKJV) —35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? 36 As it is written: “For Your sake we are killed all day long; We are accounted as sheep for the slaughter.” 37 Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us. 38 For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, 39 nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
So what do we do when we realize that God can do anything, and that He also loves us?
Our best response is to trust Him.

When Jesus was warning His disciples at the Last Supper about the troubles up ahead, He said,

(John 14:1 NKJV) “Let not your heart be troubled; you believe in God, believe also in Me.

:3 You asked, ‘Who is this who hides counsel without knowledge?’ Therefore I have uttered what I did not understand, Things too wonderful for me, which I did not know.

:4 Listen, please, and let me speak; You said, ‘I will question you, and you shall answer Me.’

:3 I have uttered what I did not understand

Job realizes just how far short his knowledge of God falls.

:5 “I have heard of You by the hearing of the ear, But now my eye sees You.

:5 now my eye sees You

I am not sure that Job physically “sees” God, but we use the term “see” as a metaphor for “understand” or “know”.

If I’m discussing something difficult with you and I ask if you get it, you might respond, “Oh, now I see”.

Job is no longer a person who has just heard about God. 

Now he knows God.

Lesson

Knowing God

God doesn’t just want you to know about Him.  He wants you to know Him.
People in high positions of power can sometimes feel like we “know” them because we read news reports, but in reality we don’t.
Suppose I was Joe Biden’s best friend and I told you that I wanted to introduce you to the president.  I wouldn’t just give you newspaper articles to read about Mr. Biden, I’d take you to him and introduce you to him face to face.
Some may still think that just learning about Jesus is what Christianity is all about.  It’s not.
Christianity is not just about doing “religious” stuff.  It is not about a list of “do’s and don’ts”.  Christianity is about knowing God.  It’s about knowing God through His Son Jesus Christ.
The Bible says that our sins have kept us from knowing God, and that Jesus’ death on the cross paid the penalty for our sins so that we can now come to know God.  Jesus said,
(Revelation 3:20 NKJV) Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and dine with him, and he with Me.

Dining with a person paints a picture of relationship.  God wants you to know Him.

Lesson

Knowing God through trials

God never answered the “why” questions that Job was asking.
Job didn’t need answers, he needed more of God.  He found more of God through the tough times he experienced.
We get to know God better through the humility that comes in our trials.
There is a built in humiliation that comes with trials.  It’s not the coolest thing in the world to have the world watch as your life falls apart.
Some people allow their hearts to grow harder through tough times, but in Job’s life, his pride fell apart and he humbled himself.
God draws near to hearts that are humble.

(1 Peter 5:5b NKJV) …Yes, all of you be submissive to one another, and be clothed with humility, for “God resists the proud, But gives grace to the humble.”

We also get to know God better through the process of suffering itself.
(Philippians 3:7–10 NKJV) —7 But what things were gain to me, these I have counted loss for Christ. 8 Yet indeed I also count all things loss for the excellence of the knowledge of Christ Jesus my Lord, for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and count them as rubbish, that I may gain Christ 9 and be found in Him, not having my own righteousness, which is from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ, the righteousness which is from God by faith; 10 that I may know Him and the power of His resurrection, and the fellowship of His sufferings, being conformed to His death,

Paul didn’t want anything to keep him from knowing Jesus more closely.  He found that part of knowing the Lord better involved the “fellowship of his sufferings”. 

Jesus is close to those who are going through trials.  We find we know Him better when we endure suffering.

Think about Shadrach, Meshach, and Abed-nego in the fiery furnace (Daniel 3).  They weren’t alone.  One “like the Son of God” was with them in the fire.

Jesus suffered and when we learn how to endure suffering, we’re beginning to understand the heart of Jesus.

Illustration
Gordon MacDonald in his book “The Life God Blesses,” tells about a Chinese pastor who spoke at a conference in England.  This pastor had spent eighteen years in prison for his faith.  He recalled for the audience his prison experience:  My friends wonder what kind of work I did in the labor camp to keep me physically healthy.  I answered them that life in the labor camp was very, very hard.  The authorities in the camp put me to emptying the human waste cesspool.  Most of the prisoners were afraid to approach the cesspool, but the authorities were aware of my background—I was well-educated, from a well-to-do family—and especially because they were atheists and they knew I was Christian leader.  So they enjoyed putting me to work in the human waste cesspool.  But they did not know in those years how I enjoyed working there.  It was more than two meters in depth and two meters in length, filled with human waste collected from the entire camp.  Once it was full, the human waste was kept until it was ripe and then dug out and sent to the field as fertilizer.  Because the pit was so deep, I could not reach the bottom to empty it, so I had to walk into the disease-ridden mass and scoop out the successive layers of human waste, all the time breathing the strong stench.  The guards and all the prisoners kept a long way off because of the stench.  So why did I enjoy working in the cesspool?  I enjoyed the solitude.  In the labor camp all the prisoners normally were under strict surveillance and no one could be alone.  But when I worked in the cesspool, I could be alone and could pray to our Lord as loudly as I needed.  I could recite the Scriptures including all the Psalms I still remembered and no one was close enough to protest.  That’s the reason I enjoyed working in the cesspool.  Also, I could sing loudly the hymns I still remembered.  In those days one of my most favorite was ‘In the Garden.’ Before I was arrested this was my favorite hymn, but at that time I did not realize the real meaning of this hymn.  When I worked in the cesspool, I knew and discovered a wonderful fellowship with our Lord.  Again and again I sang this hymn and felt our Lord’s presence with me.  ‘I come to the garden alone/While the dew is still on the roses;  And the voice I hear falling on my ear, The Son of God discloses.  And he walks with me, and he talks with me, And he tells me I am his own, And the joy we share as we tarry there None other has ever known.’  Again and again as I sang this hymn in the cesspool, I experienced the Lord’s presence.  He never left me or forsook me.  And so I survived and the cesspool became my private garden.” 
Most of us haven’t been through difficulties like that, but we do find ourselves in our own little cesspools.  This brother learned to love his cesspool.  It’s where he found himself getting closer to the Lord.  We know Him better through trials.

:6 Therefore I abhor myself, And repent in dust and ashes.”

:6 repent in dust and ashes

What had Job done that required repentance?

Keep in mind that God considered Job a righteous man.  Job isn’t admitting to the kinds of sins that his friends had been accusing him of. But Job is realizing that he has had problems in other areas of his life. 

I think Job is repenting from his bad attitude.

:7 And so it was, after the Lord had spoken these words to Job, that the Lord said to Eliphaz the Temanite, “My wrath is aroused against you and your two friends, for you have not spoken of Me what is right, as My servant Job has.

:8 Now therefore, take for yourselves seven bulls and seven rams, go to My servant Job, and offer up for yourselves a burnt offering; and My servant Job shall pray for you. For I will accept him, lest I deal with you according to your folly; because you have not spoken of Me what is right, as My servant Job has.”

:9 So Eliphaz the Temanite and Bildad the Shuhite and Zophar the Naamathite went and did as the Lord commanded them; for the Lord had accepted Job.

:7 against you and your two friends

God is upset at Eliphaz, Bildad, and Zophar.

There is no mention of Elihu.  Perhaps Elihu was a good guy.  Perhaps he didn’t merit attention.

:7 you have not spoken of Me what is right

As we’ve mentioned each week, the things that Job’s friends have not all been correct.

Some of the things they’ve said contain truth, but they are not the truth about Job.
For example, Eliphaz said,
(Job 5:17 NKJV) “Behold, happy is the man whom God corrects; Therefore do not despise the chastening of the Almighty.

The writer of Hebrews even quotes this when he talks about how God disciplines us. (Heb. 12:5)

(Hebrews 12:5 NKJV) —5 And you have forgotten the exhortation which speaks to you as to sons: “My son, do not despise the chastening of the Lord, Nor be discouraged when you are rebuked by Him;

But Job was not being “disciplined” by God.

He had done nothing wrong.  We’ve known from the very beginning of the book:

(Job 1:1 NKJV) There was a man in the land of Uz, whose name was Job; and that man was blameless and upright, and one who feared God and shunned evil.

So, we need to be careful when we take some of these “truths” from the book of Job, and keep in mind what God says about these men.

:8 go to My servant Job

God wants Eliphaz and his friends to go to Job and ask for forgiveness.

Lesson

Apologize

Sometimes we make horrendous errors in our judgments and criticisms about other people.
We need to learn to humble ourselves and apologize.
Jesus said,
(Matthew 5:23–24 NKJV) —23 Therefore if you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, 24 leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.
Video:  Values – Hallway Forgiveness
Don’t fall into the trap of thinking that because you’ve apologized to God, that you’re done.
If you’ve offended someone else, you need to go to them and ask for their forgiveness.

:10 And the Lord restored Job’s losses when he prayed for his friends. Indeed the Lord gave Job twice as much as he had before.

:10 when he prayed for his friends

Lesson

Praying for offenders

When we’ve been the one who has been misjudged, we can continue to carry a grudge for years, and those grudges continue to cause problems.
Video:  Bridge by Tin Chian Tey

Our grudges can even affect others who are watching us.

The answer to the bridge problem was for one person to “bow” in humility so the other could crawl on their back.

It seems that when Job takes the step to pray for his “friends”, things around in his life.
Pray for the people that bug you.
Don’t pray for God to wipe them out. Pray for them the way that you would want them to pray for you. Jesus said,
(Matthew 5:44 NKJV) But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you,
This may not be the magic bullet that ends your trial, but I have a feeling that even when the difficulty you’re going through ends, your trial isn’t going to be truly over until you learn to pray for the offenders.

Lesson

How to end my trial

Be careful about looking for a formula of how to end your trial.
Be careful of thinking, “Well if I just do this one thing, then everything will magically be changed!”
You have to be careful to keep from comparing your life to the lives of others.
You don’t always know what they’re going through or what it’s like to be in their shoes.
Video:  My Shoes
Job’s trial was over when God said it was over. 
Job not only had to endure the loss of his family, his wealth, and his health, he had to endure those 35 chapters of endless arguments with his friends.
If you set your hopes on finding the magic formula to end trials, you are going to be disappointed.
(Proverbs 13:12 NKJV) Hope deferred makes the heart sick, But when the desire comes, it is a tree of life.

Lesson

When restoration happens

God promised Israel:
(Joel 2:25 NKJV) “So I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten…

God promised to pay them back for all the years of trials.

When God restores, He will give us back much more than we’ve lost.
(Mark 10:29–30 NKJV) —29 So Jesus answered and said, “Assuredly, I say to you, there is no one who has left house or brothers or sisters or father or mother or wife or children or lands, for My sake and the gospel’s, 30 who shall not receive a hundredfold now in this time—houses and brothers and sisters and mothers and children and lands, with persecutions—and in the age to come, eternal life.

Sometimes the restoration happens in this life. 

Sometimes it will happen in heaven.

Yet either way, God will restore
(2 Corinthians 4:16–18 NKJV) —16 Therefore we do not lose heart. Even though our outward man is perishing, yet the inward man is being renewed day by day. 17 For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, is working for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory, 18 while we do not look at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen. For the things which are seen are temporary, but the things which are not seen are eternal.

Sometimes the “payback” is through internal things, when the “inward man” is renewed.

Sometimes the “payback” is going to be in the eternal weight of glory that we’ll experience when we get to heaven.

Whether it’s now or later, God ALWAYS gives us more than we’ve given up.

:11 Then all his brothers, all his sisters, and all those who had been his acquaintances before, came to him and ate food with him in his house; and they consoled him and comforted him for all the adversity that the Lord had brought upon him. Each one gave him a piece of silver and each a ring of gold.

:11 all his brothers, all his sisters …

I wonder why it took so long for all these folks to show up?

To be honest, sometimes when we go through the greatest of trials, some people are afraid to show up.

I wonder if some people think you’re “bad luck”.
Others just don’t know what to say.
For others, circumstances in life just keep them from being there.

Perhaps the gifts these folks bring form the basis for the restoration of Job’s wealth.

:12 Now the Lord blessed the latter days of Job more than his beginning; for he had fourteen thousand sheep, six thousand camels, one thousand yoke of oxen, and one thousand female donkeys.

:12 the Lord blessed the latter days of Job

In vs. 10 it said the Lord gave Job twice as much as he had before.

One of the measures of a man’s wealth in ancient times was the size of his herds.

When you compare what Job had at the beginning of the book (Job 1:3)

7,000 sheep were replaced by 14,000 sheep.
3,000 camels were replaced by 6,000 camels.
500 yoke of oxen were replaced by 1,000 yoke of oxen
500 female donkeys were replaced by 1,000 female donkeys.

:13 He also had seven sons and three daughters.

:13 seven sons and three daughters

Before his trial he had seven sons and three daughters.

(Job 1:2 NKJV) And seven sons and three daughters were born to him.

Why didn’t God give Job twenty more children?

Because He still has the other ten, but they are just in heaven.
He now has twice as many children.

:14 And he called the name of the first Jemimah, the name of the second Keziah, and the name of the third Keren-Happuch.

:14 JemimaY@miymah – “day by day”, or, “handsome as the day”, or, “dove”

When her sisters had children and she became an aunt, she became known as a great cook and was particularly famous for her pancakes J

:14 KeziahQ@tsiy‘ah – she was named for a cinnamon-like spice, “cassia”

:14 Keren-HappuchQeren Hap-puwk – “horn of antimony”, or, “flask of color”.

Antimony is a substance that was used by the ancients like makeup similar to mascara.

I think she went on to become a Maybelline model.

:15 In all the land were found no women so beautiful as the daughters of Job; and their father gave them an inheritance among their brothers.

:15 the daughters of Job

The Masons have an organization for their daughters called “Job’s Daughters” aimed at building character in young gals.

I am NOT endorsing the Masons.

:15 an inheritance among their brothers

This was an unusual thing in ancient days.

Inheritance was usually only passed on to sons, not daughters.

It’s not until the days of Moses that this changed in Israel with the daughters of Zelophehad (Num. 36).

:16 After this Job lived one hundred and forty years, and saw his children and grandchildren for four generations.

:17 So Job died, old and full of days.

:16 Job lived one hundred and forty years

We’ve talked about Job most likely being alive in the days of Abraham.

Abraham lived to be 175 years old.

If Job also lived to the age of 175, then that would mean that this great trial came when he was about 35 years of age.

:17 old and full of days

You see similar phrases being used to describe the death of others:

It’s used of Abraham, who lived to be 175 years old (Gen. 25:8).  It’s used of his son Isaac (Gen. 35:29) who died at the age of 180.  It’s also used of King David (1Chr. 29:28) who lived to be about 70 years old.

This phrase doesn’t as much mean length of life as much as it does quality of life and fulfilled purposes in life.

Lesson

Living a full life

(keyword)
Some people think the secret to living a “full” life is about learning how to do difficult things. You’ll thank me later for this video…
Video:  Tripp and Tyler – How to make life better
Moses wrote,
(Psalm 90:10–12 NKJV) —10 The days of our lives are seventy years; And if by reason of strength they are eighty years, Yet their boast is only labor and sorrow; For it is soon cut off, and we fly away. 11 Who knows the power of Your anger? For as the fear of You, so is Your wrath. 12 So teach us to number our days, That we may gain a heart of wisdom.
Moses is telling us that we only have so long to live on earth.  Some have suggested that this “seventy” or “eighty” year thing might indicate that there are things we can do to keep from shortening our life span. 
If a person has “strength”, they might keep from shortening their lifespan.  Some have suggested that we can see this in modern medicine where we are learning about things to better our health, like exercising, watching our weight, cholesterol, and so on. 
But the question comes, “why bother?”
When it comes to the issue of the length of life, I’ve seen people fall into several categories.
1.  Unbelievers

There are people who don’t know the Lord – and they’re absolutely terrified of dying.  They should be. 

Some respond by watching their health, others quit trying and throw caution to the wind.

2.  Scared Christians

There are Christians who ought to know better, and they are terrified of dying and they too are careful about their health, but only because they’re afraid of dying.

3.  Hurting Christians

There are Christians who have come to understand the truth that death for the believer is sweet. 

(Psalm 116:15 NKJV) Precious in the sight of the Lord Is the death of His saints.

We know that when we die and are no longer present in our current bodies, we will be present with the Lord in heaven (2Cor. 5:8)

(2 Corinthians 5:8 NKJV) We are confident, yes, well pleased rather to be absent from the body and to be present with the Lord.

But sometimes when the pressures and hurts of this life overwhelm us, we can find ourselves looking a little too much for death. 

We can find ourselves saying, “I can hardly wait until I die”.  I’m not sure this is where the Lord wants us to be.

4.  Busy Believers

There’s another attitude.  There is a reason why the Lord has left us on this side of heaven after having come to know Him.

He has a work for us to do.  Some of that work involves bringing people into the kingdom of God.  The work isn’t finished yet.

Illustration

Have you ever been involved in something where you had a hard time tearing yourself away from the task even though you were starting to run late for your next appointment?

Some kids (and their dads) have such a great time playing video games that it’s hard to get them to break away and come to the dinner table.

Some people I know are late to many things, but not because they are lazy, but because they try to squeeze five more things into the next minute before they leave for an appointment.

I wonder if we ought to think about having that same kind of attitude towards life.  I wonder if rather than wishing we were in heaven, we might have the attitude of, “Lord would you mind if I was a little late coming home so I could do a few more things down here?” 

We’re only going to get one shot of doing things on earth for the Lord, we might as well go for as much as we can.

Paul had this kind of attitude:

(Philippians 1:23–25 NLT) —23 I’m torn between two desires: I long to go and be with Christ, which would be far better for me. 24 But for your sakes, it is better that I continue to live. 25 Knowing this, I am convinced that I will remain alive so I can continue to help all of you grow and experience the joy of your faith.

I think we ought to consider making a push at getting that extra ten years on life by taking care of our health, not because we’re afraid to die or because we don’t want to suffer pain in our old age, and not because we want to spend a few extra years lying on the beach in Tahiti.

I want to say with Paul that I’ve “finished my race”.  I want to hear Jesus say to me, “Well done, good and faithful servant”.

If I have to be a little late in going to heaven to do it, it will be well worth it.

 

Break

I want to wind up our class with some perspective on “trials”.

1. Why trials?

2. Surviving Trials

 

Why trials?

Why do people go through trials?  I’m sure there are more reasons, but here are six to consider.

1. Correction

Even though Job was not going through his difficulty because of some “sin”, there may be times when that’s exactly what’s happening to us.

Sometimes we’re doing things we shouldn’t or looking where we don’t need to be looking, and it causes trouble.

Video:  Allstate Mayhem Jogger

Maybe the fellow in the car shouldn’t have been checking out the jogger’s awesome “head band”.

There are times when indeed God is trying to correct the bad behavior of one of His kids.

(Hebrews 12:5–8 NLT) —5 And have you forgotten the encouraging words God spoke to you as his children? He said, “My child, don’t make light of the Lord’s discipline, and don’t give up when he corrects you.

We’ve mentioned this before, but the writer of Hebrews is quoting Job’s friend Eliphaz here (Job 5:17).  There is truth in what Eliphaz said, but just truth that applied to Job.
(Job 5:17 NKJV) “Behold, happy is the man whom God corrects; Therefore do not despise the chastening of the Almighty.

6 For the Lord disciplines those he loves, and he punishes each one he accepts as his child.” 7 As you endure this divine discipline, remember that God is treating you as his own children. Who ever heard of a child who is never disciplined by its father? 8 If God doesn’t discipline you as he does all of his children, it means that you are illegitimate and are not really his children at all.

If you robbed a bank and are sitting in prison, you shouldn’t be asking yourself, “Why do I have such a hard life being sent to prison?”

It’s obvious you have done something to deserve it.

But if there is no obvious offense that is linked to your difficulty, be careful of assuming that you’ve done something.

2. God is proud

This was the case with Job.

God allowed Satan to cause trouble to Job to show Satan and the universe how a godly man will continue to trust God.

(Job 1:8 NLT) Then the Lord asked Satan, “Have you noticed my servant Job? He is the finest man in all the earth. He is blameless—a man of complete integrity. He fears God and stays away from evil.”

And though Job complained a lot, he did continue to trust God.  Job said,
(Job 13:15a NKJV) Though He slay me, yet will I trust Him.

Illustration

As the Union Pacific Railroad was being constructed, an elaborate trestle bridge was built across a large canyon in the West.  Wanting to test the bridge, the builder loaded a train with enough extra cars and equipment to double its normal payload.  The train was then driven to the middle of the bridge, where it stayed an entire day. One worker asked, “Are you trying to see if we can break this bridge?”

“No,” the builder replied, “I’m trying to prove that the bridge won’t break.”

Could it be that God is bragging on you?  Could it be that He thinks you’re up to the test?

3. Protection

Or, to keep us from trouble.

We saw this from the book of Job (36:19), and the principle is very similar to “correction” and “refining”.

Sometimes God uses difficulty in our lives to steer us away from things that would bring us into sin.

We see an example is Paul and his thorn in the flesh

(2 Corinthians 12:7 NKJV) And lest I should be exalted above measure by the abundance of the revelations, a thorn in the flesh was given to me, a messenger of Satan to buffet me, lest I be exalted above measure.

Paul could see later that his “thorn” was keeping him from the sin of pride, which he might have fallen into because of the great revelations he had been having about God.

A few years ago I was coming home from getting my haircut.

As I was driving out the 91 freeway, I heard a noise and looked in my rearview mirror and saw four or five cars swerving and crashing into each other on the freeway about 200 yards behind me.

Sometimes I complain about how long it I get delayed at certain stoplights.  But on that day, if the stoplights had been nicer to me, I would have been in that huge accident.

Sometimes the difficulties or “delays” are for our protection, to keep us from trouble.

4. Refining Faith

Peter wrote,

(1 Peter 1:6–7 NKJV) —6 In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while, if need be, you have been grieved by various trials, 7 that the genuineness of your faith, being much more precious than gold that perishes, though it is tested by fire, may be found to praise, honor, and glory at the revelation of Jesus Christ,

The word “tested” speaks of refining.

God refines our faith like a goldsmith refines gold.  It’s my understanding that a goldsmith will heat the gold ore until it’s in a molten state.  As he keeps the heat on, the impurities all come to the surface.  The goldsmith will keep skimming off the impurities until the gold is pure.  He knows it’s pure when He can see His own reflection in the gold.

Illustration

Charles Spurgeon said: I bear willing witness that I owe more to the fire, and the hammer, and the file, than to anything else in my Lord's workshop.  I sometimes question whether I have ever learned anything except through the rod.  When my schoolroom is darkened, I see most.

We’ve defined “faith” as “trusting in someone you can’t see”.
God will “darken the room” in a trial to give us a chance to grow in our faith, to trust Him when we don’t see what’s going on.

Paul wrote,

(1 Corinthians 10:13 NKJV) No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.

The words translated “temptation” or “tempted” can also be translated “trial” or “test”.
Paul says that in our trials, God is faithful.
He can be trusted.  He will provide a way to get through the trial.
So we need to learn to trust Him.

Illustration

A young man had worked for years to establish himself as a peach grower and had invested his all in a small peach orchard which bloomed bounteously. Then came the frost. He didn’t go to church the next Sunday, nor the next, nor the next. His pastor gave him a call to find out why he wasn’t in church. The discouraged young fellow exclaimed: “No, and what is more, I’m not coming any more. Do you think I can worship a God who loves me so little that he will let a frost kill all my peaches?”

The old pastor looked at him a moment in silence, and then replied kindly: “Young man, God loves you better than He does your peaches. He knows that while peaches do better without frosts, it is impossible to grow the best men without frosts. His object is to grow the best men, not peaches.”

5. To Show Jesus

In the story of Gideon, God used a strange military strategy to defeat the Midianites with Gideon’s little band of 300 men.

Each man had a clay pot with a torch inside, along with a ram’s horn trumpets.  Gideon’s men surrounded the Midianites at night, and at the signal they were to break the clay pots and blow the trumpets.

When they broke the clay pots, the light could shine.

You couldn’t see the light until the clay pots were broken.

Paul described a parallel picture of broken clay pots:

(2 Corinthians 4:7–11 NKJV) —7 But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellence of the power may be of God and not of us. 8 We are hard-pressed on every side, yet not crushed; we are perplexed, but not in despair; 9 persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed—10 always carrying about in the body the dying of the Lord Jesus, that the life of Jesus also may be manifested in our body. 11 For we who live are always delivered to death for Jesus’ sake, that the life of Jesus also may be manifested in our mortal flesh.

Sometimes people can’t see Jesus in our lives very clearly until our clay pots are broken.

Illustration

Charles Haddon Spurgeon wrote,
When the green leaves decorate the trees and the season is fair, one cannot readily find the birds’ nests, but when the winter strips the trees, anyone with half an eye may see them. In the same way the Christian may scarcely be discerned amid the press of business and prosperity; his hidden life is concealed amid the thick and throng of the things of earth. But let affliction come, a general sickness, or severe losses in the family, and you shall see the Christian man plainly enough in the gracious patience by which he rises superior to trial. The sick bed reveals the man; the burning house, the sinking ship, the panic on the exchange—all these make manifest the hidden ones. In many a true believer, true piety is like a drum which nobody hears of unless it be beaten.

6. I don’t know

This is the hardest answer.

God does have purposes for our lives – but He doesn’t always tell us what it’s all about.

As Job went through his difficulty, he didn’t know why.

Illustration

Washing Hamsters

A young boy, about eight years old, was at the corner “Mom & Pop” grocery picking out a pretty good size box of laundry detergent. The grocer walked over, and, trying to be friendly, asked the boy if he had a lot of laundry to do.  “Oh, no laundry,” the boy said, “I’m going to wash my hamsters.” “But you shouldn’t use this to wash hamsters. It’s very powerful and if you wash your hamsters in this, they’ll get sick. In fact, it might even kill them.”  But the boy was not to be stopped and carried the detergent to the counter and paid for it, even as the grocer still tried to talk him out of washing the hamsters.  About a week later the boy was back in the store to buy some candy. The grocer asked the boy how his hamsters were doing. “Oh, they died,” the boy said.  The grocer, trying not to be an “I-told-you-so”, said he was sorry the hamsters died but added, “I tried to tell you not to use that detergent on your hamsters.”  “Well, the boy replied, “I don’t think it was the detergent that killed them.” “Oh?  What was it then?”  “Well, after I washed them, I had to dry them and I guess the dryer can get a little hot, not to mention the hurdles they had to do. But I must say they did come out without that static cling!!”

Frankly, sometimes we can identify with those hamsters.  We’ve been through one heck of a wash cycle and feel like we’re about to die on those hurdles in the dryer. 

We have to trust in God’s love, power, wisdom.  We have to learn that He’s not some silly boy washing his hamsters.

We can trust that He loves us.

(1 John 3:16a NKJV) By this we know love, because He laid down His life for us.

Job didn’t get answers.  He got more of God. At the end of his difficult time, he said,

(Job 42:5 NKJV) “I have heard of You by the hearing of the ear, But now my eye sees You.

Illustration

In 1948, A.W. Tozer wrote,

A generation of Christians reared among push buttons and automatic machines is impatient of slower and less direct methods of reaching their goals.  We have been trying to apply machine-age methods to our relations with God.  We read our chapter, have our short devotions, and rush away, hoping to make up for our deep inward bankruptcy by attending another gospel meeting or listening to another thrilling story told by a religious adventurer lately returned from afar.  The tragic results of this spirit are all about us.  Shallow lives, hollow religious philosophies, the preponderance of the element of fun in gospel meetings, the glorification of men, trust in religious externalities, quasi-religious fellowships, salesmanship methods, the mistaking of dynamic personality for the power of the Spirit; these and such as these are the symptoms of an evil disease, a deep and serious malady of the soul.

... A. W. Tozer, The Pursuit of God [1948]

God isn’t beating you up.  He may be taking you deeper.

Surviving trials

Illustration

A family from Long Island decided to move west. They bought a ranch via the internet in Wyoming and packed up 3 moving vans and headed for the sunset. Several months later, friends from New York came for a visit. When they knocked on the front door of the ranch house, the father answered. After a hearty exchange of welcomes, the visitors asked him what the ranch had been named. “Well,” said the would-be cattleman, “I wanted to name the ranch the Bar-J. However, my wife absolutely insisted on the Susie-Q. My son liked the Flying-W, while my daughter voted for the Lazy-J.” “So what did you finally decide to name the ranch?” the visitor asked. “We decided to name it the Bar-J Susie-Q Flying-W Lazy-J Ranch,” came the reply. The visitor looked around. “So where are all the cattle?” he asked. “Oh, them,” the rancher said, shaking his head, “None of them survived the branding.”

How can we survive difficult times?

1. Change

If there is some kind of correction involved, then learn your lesson, turn around, and follow Him.

(Hebrews 12:11 NKJV) Now no chastening seems to be joyful for the present, but painful; nevertheless, afterward it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.

There is a peace that comes from being “trained”, from turning around.

Illustration

According to a radio report, a Junior High School in Oregon was faced with a unique problem. A number of girls were beginning to use lipstick and would put it on in the bathroom. That was fine, but after they put on their lipstick they would press their lips to the mirrors leaving dozens of little lip prints. Finally the principal decided that something had to be done. She called all the girls to the bathroom and met them there with the custodian. She explained that all these lip prints were causing a major problem for the custodian who had to clean the mirrors every day. To demonstrate how difficult it was to clean the mirrors, she asked the custodian to clean one of the mirrors. He proceeded to take out a long-handled brush, dip it into the nearest toilet and scrub the mirror. Since then there have been no lip prints on the mirror.

There’s a “peace” that comes from being “trained” by our trial, by changing your behavior.

2. Look to Jesus

(Hebrews 12:1–2 NKJV) —1 Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, 2 looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.

He knows what it is to go through difficulty

He knew He was going to face scourging and crucifixion, and yet He went ahead and faced his trouble because of us.

One evening Jesus sent His disciples on a boat across the Sea of Galilee when a sudden storm appeared.

While the disciples fought against the storm, Jesus showed up, walking on the water.  Jesus even asked Peter to come and walk with Him on the water.  Peter walked a few steps on the water …

(Matthew 14:30 NKJV) But when he saw that the wind was boisterous, he was afraid; and beginning to sink he cried out, saying, “Lord, save me!”
It’s when you take your eyes off of Jesus in the storm that you begin to sink.

You may think that no one has suffered like you.

But there is one person who has suffered more than all others, even more than Job.

Jesus suffered on the cross, taking the weight of all the world’s sins as He died in our place.

He knows what you’re going through and if He has allowed for you to go through a difficult time, He knows exactly what He’s doing.

3. Pray

(James 5:13 NKJV) Is anyone among you suffering? Let him pray. Is anyone cheerful? Let him sing psalms.

When Paul had his thorn in the flesh, he handled it by praying.

(2 Corinthians 12:7–10 NKJV) —7 And lest I should be exalted above measure by the abundance of the revelations, a thorn in the flesh was given to me, a messenger of Satan to buffet me, lest I be exalted above measure.

The “messenger of Satan” reminds me of Job since Satan was behind Job’s great difficulties.

8 Concerning this thing I pleaded with the Lord three times that it might depart from me. 9 And He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. 10 Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in needs, in persecutions, in distresses, for Christ’s sake. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

You may see the end of your trial in response to prayer.
Paul’s trial continued, but he found his answer in God’s grace.
He found that the weaker he became, the stronger Jesus could be inside of him.  And that’s what Paul wanted, more of Jesus.

4. Trust

Sometimes we feel like those hamsters going through the washer and dryer.  Can we trust our “keeper”?

Of course we can.  He’s not a silly little boy.

If God is stretching your faith, then respond with faith.  Respond by trusting Him.

(1 Peter 4:19 NKJV) Therefore let those who suffer according to the will of God commit their souls to Him in doing good, as to a faithful Creator.

commitparatithemi – to place beside; to deposit; to entrust, commit to one’s charge

God wants us to learn to trust Him with our lives, knowing that He knows what He’s doing.

Shadrach, Meshach and Abed-nego were three young Jewish men who would not bow to Nebuchadnezzar’s statue, even though Nebuchadnezzar threatened to thrown them into the fire for refusing to obey.

(Daniel 3:17–18 NKJV) —17 If that is the case, our God whom we serve is able to deliver us from the burning fiery furnace, and He will deliver us from your hand, O king. 18 But if not, let it be known to you, O king, that we do not serve your gods, nor will we worship the gold image which you have set up.”

They had faith that God would take care of them, either by taking them home in death, or by protecting them in the fire.

Nebuchadnezzar followed through with his threat and threw them into the fiery furnace.  Yet they found that they weren’t alone in the fire.

(Daniel 3:24–25 NKJV) —24 Then King Nebuchadnezzar was astonished; and he rose in haste and spoke, saying to his counselors, “Did we not cast three men bound into the midst of the fire?” They answered and said to the king, “True, O king.” 25 “Look!” he answered, “I see four men loose, walking in the midst of the fire; and they are not hurt, and the form of the fourth is like the Son of God.”
I think that when you and I go through tough times, Jesus is right there with us.

Video:  OneTimeBlind – Trust Fall

Jesus doesn’t just start you out with the last trust fall.  He takes it a step at a time.  But there are going to be times He will stretch your faith.

Illustration

“Footprints”
One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the LORD. Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene, he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand; one belonged to him, and the other to the LORD.
When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times along the path of his life there was only one set of footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times in his life.
This really bothered him and he questioned the LORD about it. “LORD, You said that once I decided to follow You, You’d walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life, there is only one set of footprints. I don’t understand why when I needed You most You would leave me.”
The LORD replied, “My precious, precious child, I love you and I would never leave you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you.”

You can trust Him.  Let Him carry you.

5. Rejoice

Instead of complaining

Job didn’t understand what was going on, and he complained a lot about it.

Complaining can get us into lots of trouble.

Illustration
Ole Nellie
Farmer Joe decided his injuries from the accident were serious enough to take the trucking company responsible for the accident to court. In court the trucking company’s fancy lawyer was questioning farmer Joe. Didn’t you say, at the scene of the accident, “I’m fine,” said the lawyer. Farmer Joe responded, “Well I’ll tell you what happened. I had just loaded my favorite mule Nellie into the.......” “I didn’t ask for any details,” the lawyer interrupted, “just answer the question.” “Did you not say, at the scene of the accident, ‘I’m fine!’” Farmer Joe said, “Well I had just got Nellie into the trailer and I was driving down the road...” The lawyer interrupted again and said, “Judge, I am trying to establish the fact that, at the scene of the accident, this man told the Highway Patrolman on the scene that he was just fine. Now several weeks after the accident he is trying to sue my client. I believe he is a fraud. Please tell him to simply answer the question.” By this time the Judge was frustrated at the lawyer and said to the lawyer, “I’d like to hear what he has to say about his favorite mule Nellie.” Joe thanked the Judge and proceeded, “Well as I was saying, I had just loaded Nellie, my favorite mule, into the trailer and was driving her down the highway when this huge semi-truck and trailer ran the stop sign and smacked my truck right in the side. I was thrown into one ditch and Nellie was thrown into the other. I was hurting real bad and didn’t want to move. However, I could hear ole Nellie moaning and groaning. I knew she was in terrible shape just by her groans. Shortly after the accident a Highway Patrolman came on the scene. He could hear Nellie moaning and groaning so he went over to her. After he looked at her then he took out his gun and shot her between the eyes. Then the Patrolman came across the road with his gun in his hand and looked at me. He said, “Your mule was in such bad shape I had to shoot her. How are you feeling?”

Instead of moaning and groaning like Nellie, there’s another way to respond to our trials.

Peter told us to rejoice because our trials are refining our faith. (1Pet. 1:6-7)

(1 Peter 1:6–7 NKJV) —6 In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while, if need be, you have been grieved by various trials, 7 that the genuineness of your faith, being much more precious than gold that perishes, though it is tested by fire, may be found to praise, honor, and glory at the revelation of Jesus Christ,

James tells us,

(James 1:2–4 NKJV) —2 My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, 3 knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. 4 But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.

Our trials produces “patience” in us and that’s what makes us mature as believers.

Illustration

This Is Good!

There is a story about a king in Africa and his close friend that he grew up with. The friend had a habit of looking at every situation that ever occurred in his life (positive or negative) and remarking, “This is good!” One day the king and his friend were out on a hunting expedition. The friend would load and prepare the guns for the king. The friend had apparently done something wrong in preparing one of the guns, for after taking the gun from his friend, the king fired it and his thumb was blown off. Examining the situation the friend remarked as usual, “This is good!” To which the king replied, “No, this is NOT good!” and proceeded to send his friend to jail. About a year later, the king was hunting in an area that he should have known to stay clear of. Cannibals captured him and took them to their village. They tied his hands, stacked some wood, set up a stake and bound him to the stake. As they came near to set fire to the wood, they noticed that the king was missing a thumb. Being superstitious, they never ate anyone that was less than whole. So untying the king, they sent him on his way. As he returned home, he was reminded of the event that had taken his thumb and felt remorse for his treatment of his friend. He went immediately to the jail to speak with his friend. “You were right” he said, “it was good that my thumb was blown off.” And he proceeded to tell the friend all that had just happened. “And so I am very sorry for sending you to jail for so long. It was bad for me to do this.” “No,” his friend replied, “this is good!” “What do you mean, ‘this is good’! How could it be good that I sent my friend to jail for a year?” “If I had NOT been in jail, I would have been with you.”

We may not always see what the good is with our trial, but if we are trusting God, we can still rejoice because it is indeed good.

Helping Others

One of the best ways that you can help others in their trials is to find help in your own trials.

(2 Corinthians 1:3–4 NKJV) —3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, 4 who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.

Paul is teaching the Corinthians that when they go through trials and receive comfort, they are able to turn around and help others who are going through the same things.

Trials should teach us to have compassion on others.

Illustration

Charles Spurgeon told a story about Charles Pratt, when he was Chief Justice of the Common Pleas. “Being on a visit to Lord Dacre, he walked out with a gentleman—a very absent-minded man—to a hill, on the top of which the stocks of the village stood. The Chief Justice sat down, and wanting to feel what the punishment was, he asked his companion to open them and put him in. This being done, his friend took a book from his pocket, sauntered on and completely forgot the judge. In the meantime, the Chief Justice tried in vain to release himself. Seeing a countryman, he tried to convince him to let him out, but the man wouldn’t help.  ‘No, no, old gentleman,’ said the man, ‘You were not set there for nothing,’ and left him until he was released by a servant dispatched from the house.
“Later he presided at a trial in which a magistrate was charged for false imprisonment, putting someone in the stocks. The counsel for the magistrate made light of the whole charge and especially of sitting in the stocks, which he said everybody knew was no real punishment.
“The Chief Justice rose and, leaning over the bench, said in a half-whisper, ‘Brother, have you ever been in the stocks?’
“’Really, my lord, never!’
“’Well, I have,’ said the judge, ‘and I assure you, it is no such trifle as you represent.’”

We look at life much different after we’ve been through some tough situations ourselves.

Helping others is one of the best ways we can end up helping ourselves.

Illustration

Years ago, Dr. Karl Menninger of the Menninger Clinic was asked, “If someone felt a nervous breakdown coming on, what would you suggest that he do?” “If you feel a nervous breakdown coming on, I would urge you to find somebody else with a problem—a serious one—and get involved with that individual, helping him solve his problem.” In helping him to solve his problem, then in reality your own problem is going to disappear. You’re no longer thinking internally. You’re no longer letting things gnaw at your stomach. You’re no longer getting disturbed about yourself because you’re not thinking about yourself. You’re thinking about others.

 

 

 

That’s it!  You’ve survived Job!

 

 

 

 

Homework

There’s just ONE Quick Quiz left to take.

I’d like you to share one last prayer request

 

 

No more memory verses

No more Mars Hill.

No more pericopes

 

Keywords

What was the first “keyword” …          

a.             God’s Sovereignty

b.            God’s Patience

c.             God’s Love

 

What was the second “keyword” …

a.             Living a full life

b.            Living a longer life

c.             Living a shorter life

 

 

Was there something from today’s lesson that you can apply to your life TODAY?

 

Mars Hill Notes

 

Episode #12 “The Rise And Fall Of Mars Hill”

“The Aftermath” – 2nd half

 

Part 2

 

Jesse Bryant

We are all capable of falling for this kind of stuff.

Feeling bad for all the friends he pulled into it.

 

Mike Anderson

Lots of people dealing with the damage

Abused victim and abuser

 

Trauma and ptsd

Being a part of a hugely dysfunctional church

 

Colleen Ramser (counsellor)

People need to recover from stress, then they need to reconnect with God

Some people wrecked so bad they don’t come back.

 

Levi McAllister (former worship leader, dad committed suicide)

Calling it a cult

Targeting young men who needed a dad. Mark calling himself their dad.

 

Don’t sound like Job’s friends

 

Comparing Luther and Mark

Luther was constantly persecuted (Mark wasn’t)

Luther - all life was repentance

Luther was loud and bombastic but he preached a different Jesus.

 

Jen Zug

Wrote 2014 blog. Loved Mars Hill. Felt betrayed that the church changed direction. Break up letter.

Left when Tim Gatos resigned.

Quest Church meeting at old Ballard Building

Left for more progressive church

 

Tim Smith

Mars Hill Portland pastor

Transitioned the church to Trinity.

Now not pastoring.

Now asking lots of questions. Should he stop pastoring?

Struggles that he had made ministry all about himself.

Can he trust himself?

 

Joel Brown

Former pastor

Ashamed

2017 former pastors gather.

Is God done with people?

 

Sutton Turner

Seen by many as the villain

Jen Smith had been reconciled with him.

He writes a blog about his counseling and journey.

He meets with people who said he hurt them.

He reaches out to Jen Smith

Reconciled with Jesse Bryant

Playing a passive role in a toxic system

 

Much pain continues because of absence of resolution from Mark.

Felt abandoned because he left.

 

What about Mark’s soul?

 

Nick Bogardus

Malcolm Muggeridge – C.S. Lewis told story about meeting Muggeridge in the studio, after “cut”, Muggeridge lets out a big sigh.  Media can be all about “masks”.

The longer you live with a “mask”, the greater the void grows between the “mask” and the internal reality of who you are.  You become loved for something you are not.

 

Never heard back from Mark with requests for interview

Requests for interviews from other leaders were also declined – Matt Chandler, Tim Keller, John Piper also declined.  Also leaders from Acts 29.

 

Marshill.se

Preservation of Mars Hill media – website (no longer “marshill.se”, now “marshillwas.com”)

 

How does the church view what happened at Mars Hill?

Do we focus on the “good” that was left?

Do we acknowledge that there are wounded people?

Do we acknowledge there was a wolf in the flock?