Calvary
Chapel Bible College
April
28, 2021
Reading (NIV)
Memorize
Romans 12:2
(Romans 12:1–2 NKJV) —1 I beseech
you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a
living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable
service. 2 And do not be conformed to this world, but be
transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is
that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.
Introduction
The letter of Paul to the Romans is
considered Paul’s most important letter. This is why it is placed in front of
all his others writings.
When and
Where
The year is around AD 57 or 58
In your Bible, we’d place the
writing of this letter around Acts 20:2 – that’s about when Paul wrote to the
Romans from the city of Corinth.
Paul had been in Ephesus for three years, yet when persecution
arose, he makes his way up to Macedonia, writes 2Corinthians at Philippi, and
then heads south to Corinth where he writes his letter to Rome.
What it’s
about
The first five chapters dealt with justification,
how a person is made right with God.
The next three chapters will deal
with sanctification, the process where we grow to be more like Jesus.
The next three chapters will unpack
the differences between the Jew and Gentile, and God’s plan for His
people.
In the last five chapters, Paul
will launch into personal, practical matters – how do we live as
Christians? What does the Christian life look like? How do we get along with
one another?
I’d like to suggest that if you
have your theology correct from the first 11 chapters, then your manner of life
will look like the things in chapters 12-16.
In building his case for justification, Paul started by showing
that
The Gentiles were guilty of sin (ch.1)
The Jews were also guilty (ch.2)
God provided Jesus to pay for our sins (ch.3)
Paul showed that faith like Abraham is all that’s needed for
salvation (ch.4)
Paul showed that it’s reasonable for one person (Jesus) to affect
all mankind, like Adam (ch.5)
Several weeks ago we moved into Paul’s
next section:
Sanctification
Chapter 6 talked about the connection between baptism, and the
reality that we’ve been buried and raised from the dead, and sin no longer has
an unbreakable hold on us.
Chapter 7 was about our continuing struggle of living with the
flesh.
Chapter 8 is all about learning to live in the Spirit.
A few week ago we started the section
where Paul begins to contrast the Jews and the Gentiles.
Paul talked about the sovereignty of God – how God chooses us and
shows mercy to us. (ch.9)
He said that all it took for anyone to be saved was to “call on
the name of the Lord” (ch.10)
Even though they are temporarily blinded, Paul has hinted that
God isn’t finished with the Jewish people (ch.11)
Paul is talking about what it really looks like to be a real
Christian.
13:8-10 Love fulfills
Last week we
talked about the subject of submission, with Paul applying it to what we “owe” to others.
(Romans 13:7 NKJV) Render therefore to all their due: taxes to whom taxes are
due, customs to whom customs, fear to whom fear, honor to whom honor.
due – opheile – that which is owed; a debt
The idea is that we “owe it” to the government to pay our taxes.
We “owe it” to show respect to certain people.
We “owe it” to show honor to others.
:8 Owe no
one anything except to love one another, for he who loves another has fulfilled
the law.
:8 Owe no
one anything except to love one another
owe – opheilo – to owe; to owe money, be in
debt for
You might miss it in English, but Paul is basically using the same word
translated “due” in the previous verse. He’s continuing the same thought.
The idea here is that we should not have any outstanding
debts.
If you owe somebody money, pay your debt.
If you owe someone “fear” or “honor” (Rom. 12:7), then pay your debt.
But there is one debt that you can never completely pay off…
to love
– agapao – Love based on the will, assigning
value to a person
As opposed to spontaneous, emotional, natural affection.
Lesson
Payment due
The early church father Origen
said, “The debt of love remains with us
permanently and never leaves us. This is a debt which we pay every day and
forever owe.”
Keep in mind what kind of love we’re
talking about:
(1 Corinthians 13:4–8 NLT)
—4 Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud 5 or rude. It
does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of
being wronged. 6 It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth
wins out.
There is a difference between godly love and our romantic,
mushy, warm-fuzzy concept of love.
God’s kind of love doesn’t look the other way or ignore
injustice. In fact, God’s love is the very foundation of His “discipline” of
us, His chastisement of us when we’re disobedient (Heb. 13).
We think that “love” means that I have
to turn my head and let someone get away with something, but God’s love
will step in and deal with the problem, OUT OF LOVE, to stop the sin.
7 Love never
gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every
circumstance. 8 Prophecy and speaking in unknown languages and special knowledge
will become useless. But love will last forever!
If you think that you’ve already given a certain person
“enough love”, you’re wrong.
You
still owe more.
But don’t be confused with what you owe them – it’s not
affection, it’s agape.
:8 he who loves
another has fulfilled the law
has fulfilled
– pleroo – to make full, to complete
Perfect
tense. Has been fulfilled and continues
to be.
:9 For
the commandments, “You shall not commit adultery,” “You shall not murder,” “You
shall not steal,” “You shall not bear false witness,” “You shall not covet,”
and if there is any other commandment, are all summed up in this
saying, namely, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”
:9 For the
commandments, “You shall not …
The Ten
Commandments were divided into two parts or two “tables” or “tablets”.
The first
“table” (Ex. 20:3-8) contained the commandments about how we relate to God
(don’t have other gods, no images… etc).
The second
“table” contained the commandments about how we relate to people.
This is what
Paul is quoting from, a little out of order and he doesn’t mention the command
to honor your parents (Ex. 20:12-17).
adultery
– moicheuo – to
commit adultery; to break the marriage vows
murder – phoneuo –to kill, slay, murder
steal – klepto – to steal; to commit a theft
bear false witness – pseudomartureo
(“false” + “to be a witness) – to utter falsehoods in giving testimony, to lie
covet – epithumeo – to have a desire for, long
for; to lust after, covet
We may never let anyone see the strong
desires inside of us, but don’t think that the “lust” isn’t harmful. It is one
of those “root causes”, one of those things that can drive all
of our actions if we aren’t careful.
:9 are all summed up …“You
shall love your neighbor
summed up – anakephalaiomai
– to sum up (again), to condense into a summary
God simplifies it for us. Instead of having to worry about five things NOT
to do, we only have to focus on doing ONE thing –
loving.
Paul is quoting from:
(Leviticus 19:18 NKJV) You shall not take vengeance, nor
bear any grudge against the children of your people, but you shall love your
neighbor as yourself: I am the Lord.
Jesus taught this as well (Matt. 22:35-40) that loving God and loving your
neighbor was how you sum up all the commandments.
(Matthew 22:35–40 NKJV) —35
Then one of them, a lawyer, asked Him a question,
testing Him, and saying, 36 “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the law?” 37 Jesus said
to him, “ ‘You shall love the Lord
your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the
first and great commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your
neighbor as yourself.’ 40 On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.”
The first “table” of the Law is
taken care of when you learn to love God.
The second “table” of the Law is
taken care of when you learn to love others.
Illustration
Talking about neighbors …
During his
sermon, a pastor quoted from Matthew, “Love your neighbor as yourself.” To
emphasize the point, he asked three times, with increasing intensity: “Who is
my neighbor? Who is
my neighbor? Who is
my neighbor?!” Each
time he asked, a young boy in the congregation answered (mimicking the pastor’s
intensity, but not quite as loud): “Mister Rogers! Mister Rogers! Mister Rogers!”
• Ed Arida, Stow, OH, Christian Reader, “Lite
Fare.”
:10 Love
does no harm to a neighbor; therefore love is
the fulfillment of the law.
harm – kakos
– wrong, wicked; troublesome, injurious, destructive
:10 love is
the fulfillment of the law
If you will love people, then you won’t be hurting
them.
Lesson
Love obeys the law.
Some people have the idea that living the Christian life has nothing to do
with “the Law”. People will tell you, “Hey, I’m no longer under the Law,
brother!”
But what they ignore is the fact that while our lives are no longer judged
by the Law, and while our righteousness and the ability to make the grade in
heaven is based on what Jesus has done for us, our lives will still conform to
the Law.
Jesus said,
(Matthew 5:17–19 NKJV) —17 “Do not think that I came to destroy the
Law or the Prophets. I did not come to destroy but to fulfill. 18 For
assuredly, I say to you, till heaven and earth pass away, one jot or one tittle
will by no means pass from the law till all is fulfilled. 19 Whoever therefore breaks one of the least
of these commandments, and teaches men so, shall be called least in the kingdom
of heaven; but whoever does and teaches them, he shall be called great
in the kingdom of heaven.
As we learn to pay attention to loving others like we ought, we will find
that our actions will parallel what is commanded in the Law.
You can tell a lot about a person by whether or not
they are obedient to the law.
Illustration
During his time as a rancher, Theodore Roosevelt and one of his
cowpunchers lassoed a maverick steer, lit a fire, and prepared the branding
irons. The part of the range they were on was claimed by Gregor Lang, one of
Roosevelt’s neighbors. According to the cattleman’s rule, the steer therefore
belonged to Lang. As his cowboy
applied the brand, Roosevelt said, “Wait, it should be Lang’s brand.” “That’s
all right boss,” said the cowboy. “But you’re putting on my brand,” Roosevelt
said. “That’s right,” said the man. “Drop that iron,” Roosevelt demanded, “and
get back to the ranch and get out. I don’t need you anymore. A man who will
steal for me will steal from me.”
• The Little, Brown Book of Anecdotes, Clifton Fadiman, General Editor,
Little Brown & Company, 1985, p. 476.
Roosevelt knew he couldn’t trust the man as an employee because the man was
a law-breaker.
Let’s say that a married
man starts getting close to another woman other than his wife at work. Let’s
say that he tells the woman that he “loves” her. Can
that be true love? No, because the man is breaking the law by committing
adultery against his wife. If he breaks the law against his wife, what’s going
to keep him from breaking the law again with you?
Lesson
How can I love like that?
1. Let God love you
(1 John 4:19 NKJV) We love Him because He first loved us.
I can only begin to understand how to love God with my heart, mind,
and strength when I begin to understand how much God loves me.
2. Be filled with the Spirit
(Galatians 5:22–23 NKJV) —22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering,
kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control.
The chief result of the Holy Spirit being in control of
your life will be love.
3. Provoke others to love
(Hebrews 10:24 NKJV) And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works,
stir
up – paroxusmos – an inciting; irritation.
It’s like
lighting a match. Starting a fire.
The old
adage, “It only takes a spark to get a fire going…”
I don’t always enjoy
being an irritation to others, but there is one way in which I hope I excel at
irritating people. I hope I irritate them into loving others.
13:11-14 Put on
Christ
:11 And do this,
knowing the time, that now it is high time to awake
out of sleep; for now our salvation is nearer
than when we first believed.
:11 And do
this, knowing the time
What’s the “this”? Learning to “love your neighbor”. We ought to
“love our neighbor” because of the time we’re in.
the time – kairos – a measure of time, a fixed and
definite time
Paul is not referring
to chronological time
(chronos) but to kairos, time as an era,
epoch, or age (MacArthur).
Do you know what “age” we’re in?
(Matthew 16:1–3 NKJV) —1 Then the Pharisees and Sadducees came, and
testing Him asked that He would show them a sign from
heaven. 2 He answered and said to them, “When it is evening you say, ‘It
will be fair weather, for the sky is red’; 3 and in the
morning, ‘It will be foul weather today, for the sky is red and
threatening.’ Hypocrites! You know how to discern the face of the sky, but you
cannot discern the signs of the times.
times - kairos
The Pharisees knew a
lot about how to predict the weather, but they were ignorant to the fact of the
times they were in. The Messiah was standing right in front of them.
:11 that now it
is high time to awake out of sleep
sleep – hupnos – sleep.
Sometimes we can get “hypnotized” by the world. We get a little “sleepy” to
the things of God.
Yet it is the “hour” to wake up, not fall asleep.
high time – hora
(hour) – a certain definite
time or season fixed by natural law and returning with the revolving year; any
definite time, point of time, moment
to awake – egeiro
– to arouse, cause to rise; to arouse from sleep, to awake
It is also used to describe
resurrection:
(Luke 9:22 NKJV) —22 saying, “The Son of Man must suffer many things, and be rejected
by the elders and chief priests and scribes, and be killed, and be raised the
third day.”
:11 for now our
salvation is nearer than when we first believed
Paul is
saying that Jesus’ return is now closer than it’s ever been before. And for us,
it’s even closer.
Paul uses the picture of somebody sleeping through the night and now it’s
about time to wake up.
Every day that goes by gets us closer to the day of our “salvation”, when
we will see God.
Lesson
Get ready to go
It’s not hard to get cynical about Jesus’ return and say something like,
“People have been saying for years that Jesus was about to come back, and He
hasn’t yet. Why should I be concerned?”
(Matthew 24:45–51 NKJV) —45 “Who then is a faithful and wise servant, whom his master made
ruler over his household, to give them food in due season? 46 Blessed is
that servant whom his master, when he comes, will find so doing. 47 Assuredly, I
say to you that he will make him ruler over all his goods. 48 But if that
evil servant says in his heart, ‘My master is delaying his coming,’ 49 and begins
to beat his fellow servants, and to eat and drink with the drunkards, 50 the master
of that servant will come on a day when he is not looking for him and at
an hour that he is not aware of, 51 and will cut him in two and appoint him his portion with the
hypocrites. There shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth.
Which servant thinks that the Lord is delaying His coming? The evil
servant.
Which servant is ready for his Master’s return? The faithful and wise
servant.
Jesus is coming for us. It may be that we could suddenly
die, and then we will find ourselves in His presence. It may be that the time
of His return will finally come. Get ready.
:12 The night
is far spent, the day is at hand. Therefore let us
cast off the works of darkness, and let us put on the
armor of light.
:12 The night
is far spent, the day is at hand
far spent – prokopto
– to beat forward; to lengthen out by hammering (as a smith forges metals)
There’s not much night time
left.
:12 let us
cast off the works of darkness
cast off
– apotithemi – to put off or aside or
away
Illustration
Down on Lake
Isabella, located in the high desert an hour east of Bakersfield, Pete, new to boating was having a problem. No matter how hard he tried,
he just couldn’t get his brand new 22-ft Bayliner to perform. It wouldn’t get on a plane at
all, and it was very sluggish in almost every maneuver, no matter how much
power he applied. After about an hour of trying to make it go, he putted over to a nearby marina. Maybe they could tell him
what was wrong. A thorough topside check revealed everything was in perfect
working order. The engine
ran fine, the outdrive went up and down, and the prop was the correct size and
pitch. So, one of the marina guys jumped in the water to check underneath the
boat. He came up choking on water, he was laughing so
hard. Under the boat, still strapped securely in place, was the trailer.
There are going
to be some things that will definitely “slow you down” in life. If you don’t learn to unhook them from your
life you’re not going to get too far. Paul calls them “works of darkness”.
(Hebrews 12:1 NKJV) —1 Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of
witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us,
and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,
:12 let us put on
the armor of light
put on –
enduo – to sink into (clothing), put
on, clothe one’s self
The picture is like getting up in the
morning and changing out of your pajamas and into your daytime clothes.
armor – hoplon – any tool or implement for
preparing a thing; arms used in warfare, weapons
Illustration
A bunch of recruits were having a written examination,
and when one of them was asked why he wasn’t working, he replied, “Sir, I have
neither paper nor pencil.”
“Well!” exclaimed the instructor, “what would you think of a soldier who went
into battle with neither rifle
nor ammunition?” The recruit thought for a moment, and then answered, “I’d
think he was an officer,
sir.”
Unfortunately, too many Christians today think they are
officers in God’s army and have no need of the Spirit’s weapons. Don’t
underestimate the enemy!
works of darkness … armor of light
Paul is going to clarify these in the next two verses.
:13 Let us walk properly, as in the day, not in
revelry and drunkenness, not in lewdness and lust, not in strife and envy.
:13 Let us walk
properly, as in the day
properly – euschemonos –
in a seemly manner, decently
Paul is going
to list things that belong in “darkness”, not in “the day”.
The things we put off, come in pairs.
The first two
deal with intoxication
:13 not in revelry
and drunkenness
revelry
– komos – drunken party, carousal
This is a nighttime procession of half drunken and frolicsome fellows who
after supper parade through the streets with torches and music in honor of Bacchus or some other
deity, and sing and play before houses of male and female friends; hence used
generally of feasts and drinking parties that are protracted till late at night
and indulge in revelry
drunkenness
– methe – intoxication; drunkenness.
Some folks don’t need a party as an excuse to get drunk. They drink when
they’re alone.
The next two
words deal with sexual sin:
:13 not in lewdness
and lust
lewdness
– koite – a place for laying down; a
bed, couch
We’d call it “sleeping around”
Illustration
Two rabbis, one Reformed and the
other Orthodox, were discussing their respective congregations one day. The
Reformed rabbi asked the Orthodox leader, “Why don’t you let the men and women
of your congregation sit together, as they do in my synagogue?” The Orthodox
rabbi, known for his sense of humor, replied, “If you want to know the truth, I
don’t really mind them sitting together at all. But, you see, my sermons aren’t
that interesting and I just can’t have them sleeping
together.”
The word Paul uses here is not
talking about sleeping in church. He’s talking about sexual intercourse.
lust – aselgeia – unbridled lust, lacking
sexual restraints, outrageousness, shamelessness
The fundamental thought is the acknowledging of no
restraints, rudely doing whatever the latest impulse leads you to do.
The last two
words deal with conflict with others:
:13 not in strife
and envy
strife –
eris – contention, strife, wrangling
envy – zelos – an envious and contentious
rivalry, jealousy
These are all “night
time” activities, things we are to “put off”.
:14 But put
on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to fulfill
its lusts.
:14 But put on the
Lord Jesus Christ
put on –
enduo – to sink into (clothing), put
on, clothe one’s self
How do we get “dressed” with Jesus? Perhaps the key is in the
title given to Jesus – “Lord”
Lesson
Making Him Lord
Victory over sin doesn’t come only by
denying the flesh.
It comes by making Him your “Lord”.
You’ve got a “throne” inside your
heart. It’s that seat inside you where
the pilot sits,
where the one sits that calls the shots, that makes the decisions.
Illustration
There’s a story about a photographer
for a national magazine who was assigned to take pictures of a great forest fire. He was
advised that a small plane would be waiting to fly him over the fire. The
photographer arrived at the airstrip just an hour before sundown. Sure enough,
a small Cessna
airplane was waiting. He jumped in with his equipment and shouted, “Let’s go!”
The tense man sitting in the pilot’s seat swung the plane into the wind and
soon they were in the air, though flying erratically. “Fly over the north side of the fire,” said
the photographer, “and make several low-level passes.” “Why?” asked the nervous
pilot. “Because I’m going to take pictures!” yelled the photographer. “I’m a photographer, and
photographers take pictures.” After a long pause, the “pilot” replied: “You
mean, you’re not my instructor?”
Who is sitting in the “pilot’s seat” of
your life?
Who makes the decisions? Do you have a “beginner” behind the
stick? Or do you let Jesus fly the
plane?
I think God’s desire is that we learn
to stop and ask Him, “What
do YOU want me to do?”
Sometimes He simply leaves the decision
up to us.
But sometimes His answers are pretty obvious and clear.
There are some things that are simply NOT what He wants us to do. There are other things that He does want us
to do.
:14 make no
provision for the flesh, to fulfill its lusts
provision
– pronoia (“before” + “to
understand”) – forethought, providential care; to make provision for a thing
It’s like planning for a trip and packing what you think you’ll need.
flesh – sarx – flesh; the sensuous nature of
man, the sin nature
The part of me that loves to sin and rebel against God
lusts – epithumia – desire, craving, longing,
desire for what is forbidden
My “flesh” wants certain things. Am I going to “pack a bag” for my flesh?
Am I going to “provide for” my flesh?
Lesson
Don’t pack for the flesh
Illustration
When these extreme explorers try to climb Mount Everest,
it’s very important that they have figured out how much
supplies they’re going to need. They have special camps along the way to rest
and be re-supplied. One of the keys to surviving Everest is having adequate
provisions.
Having victory over sin is related to
how we “re-supply” our sin nature.
Illustration
There’s the old Eskimo proverb: “Every man has two dogs
fighting inside of him. The dog you feed is the dog that wins”
Are you feeding the
“flesh dog” or the “Spirit dog”
(Acts 19:18–20 NKJV) —18
And many who had believed came confessing and
telling their deeds. 19 Also, many of those who had practiced magic brought their books
together and burned them in the sight of all. And they counted up the value of them, and it totaled fifty
thousand pieces of silver. 20 So the word of the Lord grew mightily and prevailed.
These people
in Ephesus were coming to Jesus and as a result, started cleaning out their
closets, getting rid of all their junk. Note that one result was that the Word
of God grew and prevailed.
What are the kinds of things that
“feed” our flesh? Are you aware of the
things that make you want to sin more?
Be careful not to have the things close by that will tempt you. Clean out your
closets. Get rid of the provisions.
14:1-13 Weaker
Brothers
Now Paul goes into an area where we have lots of problems in church – how
we tend to “judge” each other and put guilt trips on each other.
key word: “judge”, the Greek word (krino) is found seven times in our passage.
Paul will divide the people in church into two categories, the “weaker” and
the “stronger”.
Who is the weaker brother?
One who still feels like their
relationship with the Lord depends upon their keeping certain rules or laws. They have a struggle accepting by faith that
Jesus’ righteousness is enough.
Paul is going to give several examples
of these “gray”
areas where people can differ in their opinions. A “gray” area is one where the Scripture
doesn’t specifically forbid a certain thing.
Some people take it one way, others take it
another way.
He will talk about what to eat, what to drink, and what day is better
than another.
CAUTION: Sometimes we think that the
person who has “given up” the most things in the church is the stronger
brother. It may not be so.
What are some potential “weak
brother” issues for us?
Some of you may not like what I’m about
to say.
Movies and TV – is it okay to watch? What is okay?
Drinking alcohol. Smoking.
An old saying was, “I don’t smoke and I
don’t chew and I don’t go with girls that do!”
There are people who
are very strong against smoking, saying that it defiles the temple of
God.
But how about if you’re overweight? Is that defiling the “temple”?
Christians who live in the South, where
tobacco is grown, often don’t have any problems at all with Christians
smoking.
Christians in England and Europe,
strong Christians, will drink wine or brandy, and even smoke cigars. Scripture says it’s wrong to be drunk, but it
doesn’t say it’s wrong to drink.
Some of these things
are more of a “forbidden” thing in a local culture than they are forbidden in
Scripture.
These are things that seem to fall into
kinds of “gray” areas, areas where I don’t think I’d see any specific
prohibition in Scripture.
Lesson
Wrong is still wrong
I need to be clear here. There are some things in Scripture that are
non-negotiable. There are some things
that are just plain wrong.
(1 Corinthians 6:9–10
NKJV) —9 Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom
of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers,
nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor
drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.
People whose lives are characterized by these things won’t
be in heaven.
There are certain things that are expressly forbidden in Scripture. We need to stay away from those things. But there are many things that aren’t
specifically spoken to. We need to learn
to listen to the Holy Spirit guiding us.
:1 Receive one
who is weak in the faith, but not to disputes
over doubtful things.
:1 Receive one who
is weak in the faith
weak – astheneo
– to be weak, feeble, to be without strength, powerless
receive
– proslambano (“toward” + “to
receive”) – to take to; to take as one’s companion; to take or receive into
one’s home
With the additional idea of kindness; grant one access to one’s heart; to take into
friendship
Paul doesn’t just use the simple word for “receive” (lambano), but
he uses a bit more intense word, one indicating closeness.
Paul uses a
“middle voice”, meaning you “receive to yourself”
Paul uses an
“imperative”, this is a command.
Paul uses a
“present tense”, meaning that this is something we do now, perhaps even
continually.
:1 but not
to disputes over doubtful things
disputes – diakrisis
– a distinguishing, discerning, judging
doubtful things – dialogismos
– the thinking of a man deliberating with himself; a thought, inward
reasoning; purpose, design; a deliberating, questioning about what is true;
hesitation, doubting; disputing, arguing
(Romans 14:1 NASB95) —1 Now accept the one who is weak in
faith, but not for the purpose of passing judgment on his
opinions.
Lesson
Don’t try to straighten everyone
out.
A.T.
Robertson: “The “strong” brother is
not called upon to settle all the scruples of the “weak” brother.”
Sometimes us more “mature” Christians
will try to take someone “under our wing” for the purpose of “setting him
straight”.
Just be careful what you’re trying to
straighten out.
If it’s a gray area,
let it go.
There are some churches where if you
expect to “fit in”, then you are going to need to dress a certain way, act a
certain way, cut your hair a certain way, even talk a certain way. What was so refreshing about Calvary Chapel in the late sixties
was that Pastor Chuck learned to just love the hippie kids, even though they
didn’t quite fit the mold of the average church-goer
of the time. I remember being in a
church when a “long hair” showed up, and boy did they stick out like a sore
thumb!
You don’t need to play “Holy Spirit” to
your friends by trying to bring them under conviction. The Holy Spirit does a fine job without your
help.
:2 For one
believes he may eat all things, but he who is weak eats only vegetables.
:2 he who is
weak eats only vegetables
may eat – phago
– to eat; to eat (consume) a thing; to take food, eat a meal
eats – esthio
– to eat; to eat (consume) a thing; to take food, eat a meal
vegetables – lachanon
– any pot herb, vegetables; from lachaino,
to dig
There were and still are today some groups who hold to a strict vegetarian diet.
Others will hold to the Jewish dietary laws, forbidding
the eating of pork, lobster, shrimp, etc.
Yet food doesn’t make you better or worse in your
relationship with God. Jesus said
that it wasn’t what you ate that defiled you, but what comes out of your life
that defiles you
(Mark 7:19 NLT) —19 Food doesn’t go into your heart, but only
passes through the stomach and then goes into the sewer.” (By saying this, he
declared that every kind of food is acceptable in God’s eyes.)
Paul said that God gave us food to eat,
and we ought to be thankful about it, all of it:
(1 Timothy 4:4–5 NKJV) —4 For every creature of God is good, and nothing is to be
refused if it is received with thanksgiving; 5 for it is
sanctified by the word of God and prayer.
Note that it’s the “weak” brother who
is the one who has trouble eating meat.
Sometimes we think that the person who has a problem in a certain area
is really the spiritual one. If someone
talks about how they don’t go to certain kinds of movies, or go and do certain
kinds of things, they may actually be a “weaker”
brother.
Lesson
What’s your reason?
When it comes to things in the “gray” area, I think
it all depends on why you do or don’t do certain things.
Brownie points or lost the taste?
If your reason for not going to the
movies is because you think it will get you “brownie points” with God, then you
are a weaker brother. If your reason is
because you simply have lost the taste for those kinds of movies, and it really
doesn’t matter whether you go or don’t go, then perhaps it is just Jesus
conforming you into His image.
But you need to be careful that you
don’t go put your trip on somebody else.
:3 Let not
him who eats despise him who does not eat, and let not
him who does not eat judge him who eats; for God has received him.
:3 Let not him who eats despise him who does not eat
despise
– exoutheneo (“out of” + “nothing”) –
to make of no account, despise utterly, to
look on someone as totally worthless
This seems to carry the idea that you
look at a person and think they’re not saved anymore because of what they’re
doing.
Here the idea is that the “strong”
brother, who doesn’t have a problem eating different kinds of foods, shouldn’t
look down on a person who is struggling with food problems.
:3 …not eat
judge him who eats; for God has received him
judge – krino – to separate, to pick out,
select, choose; to approve, to prefer; to judge; to pronounce an opinion
concerning right and wrong
This is the 1st we’ll see this word.
Paul is saying that these “weaker”
brothers should not stand back and criticize those who are smoking, especially
when they don’t seem to have a problem with smoking.
received
– proslambano (“toward” + “to
receive”) – …to take into friendship
This is the same word used in verse 1.
In verse 1 we are told that we need to now
continually “receive” this person. Here
in verse 3 we find out that God has already “received”
them.
If God has “received” them, who am I to not “receive” them?
Do you have contempt for or judge
others who do or don’t do certain things?
Sometimes we judge those who seem to
have more liberty than we do because we wish we were able to do the same
things. We’re jealous of them. We think, “How come they can do these things
and get away with it while I feel condemned when I do it?”
There may be times when you are not
listening to the Spirit and following His leading. Sometimes your convictions are more a product
of what your parents thought or what your pastor says, than what the Lord
thinks.
Lesson
Life ain’t fair. Get over it.
There may be times when you feel a
conviction about a gray area from the Holy Spirit, and you may indeed be
correct. But that doesn’t mean that the
Holy Spirit has put the same conviction about the same gray area on others as
well.
Illustration
As parents, we often try very hard to make sure that
one child isn’t exalted above the others.
If you buy a shirt for one child, you buy one for each of the
others. But sometimes you just can’t
keep things balanced. Sometimes one
child will simply get blessed with something that just can’t be matched for the others. And
when the other children will complain (which they will), the only thing you can
respond with is to say, “Sometimes life isn’t fair!” And that’s absolutely the truth.
Just because the Holy
Spirit convicts you about a certain area doesn’t mean that you have to make sure that everyone has to
learn the same lesson as you, just to be fair.
Sometimes it isn’t going to be fair.
The important thing is
not whether life seems fair. The
important thing is that you are learning to listen to the prompting of the Holy
Spirit.
When Peter heard that John was going to
live longer than he was, he complained…
(John 21:22 NKJV) —22 Jesus said to him, “If I will that he remain
till I come, what is that to you? You follow Me.”
:4 Who
are you to judge another’s servant? To his own master he stands or falls.
Indeed, he will be made to stand, for God is able to make him stand.
:4 Who are you
to judge another’s servant?
judge – krino – 2nd time
for the word
servant
– oiketes – (“house”) one who lives
in the same house as another, spoken of all who are under the authority of one
and the same householder; a servant, a domestic
The problem comes when we get to thinking that we’re “better” than another
person because of our superior beliefs.
We can even start thinking that we’re the “lord” of that other person.
In reality, we are all servants in the same
household. We all report to the same
master.
We can find ourselves quite judgmental of other Christians, yet we are all
serving the same Lord.
:4 he will be made
to stand, for God is able to make him stand
Lesson
God wants you to make it
(keyword)
It might seem that some people don’t
want you to succeed in following Jesus.
God on the other hand wants you to make
it.
Jude says:
(Jude 24 NKJV) —24 Now to Him who is
able to keep you from stumbling, And to present you faultless Before the
presence of His glory with exceeding joy,
Give God time to finish the project
He’s working on.
(Philippians 1:6 NLT) —6 And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will
continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus
returns.
God is the potter who
is shaping the clay. We are the clay and are responsible to stay
pliable in the potter’s hands. You may be a part of God’s process of growing
people up, but the responsibilities for their growth lie with God and with
them, not you.
Lesson
Use the exit
It’s important to realize how God helps
us to stand.
(1 Corinthians 10:13 NKJV)
—13 No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man;
but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what
you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that
you may be able to bear it.
There is an important part we play when
it comes to “making it”.
God promised to always provide an
“exit” to get out of every temptation.
The trick is to use the exit.
The “Exit” door is always going to be there. It may be a phone call that temporarily
breaks the thought processes of the temptation. Or a text message. It may be that you hit all red lights on the
way to your sin.
It may simply be the still, small voice of a Scripture calling out for
you to flee. The real question is whether or not you
use the exit.
Break
:5 One
person esteems one day above another; another esteems every day alike.
Let each be fully convinced in his own mind.
:5 One person
esteems one day above another
esteems – krino – 3rd
& 4th time for the word
Days
Another “gray” area. The subject here is “days”. Do we consider one day better than another, or all days the
same?
In Paul’s day,
the Jewish believers were giving honor to God on the Sabbath, on Saturday.
There are people who
think that if you worship on Sunday that you are evil and in rebellion against
God. They say that Saturday is the day.
In contrast,
the Gentile believers of Paul’s day were already worshipping on Sunday (Acts
20:7; 1Cor. 16:2), out of respect for the Resurrection, which took place on a
Sunday.
Some folks feel
that all days are really the same and that we really ought to be thinking about
worshipping God every day! I kind of like that idea myself.
:5 Let each be
fully convinced in his own mind
be fully convinced
– plerophoreo (“full” + “to wear like
clothes”) – to bear or bring full; to fill one with any thought, conviction, or
inclination; to be persuaded, persuaded, fully convinced or assured
There is no right or wrong way to these
things. You need to make up your own
mind on these gray areas and then just be faithful to your convictions without
judging others.
Be faithful to what you are persuaded
about.
:6 He who
observes the day, observes it to the Lord; and he who does not observe
the day, to the Lord he does not observe it. He
who eats, eats to the Lord, for he gives God thanks; and he who does not eat,
to the Lord he does not eat, and gives God thanks.
observes – phroneo
(“mind”) – to have understanding; to feel, to think; to direct one’s mind
to a thing
This is a general rule that doesn’t apply in every situation.
Most people make one day special because they are trying to do it for the
Lord, but not everyone.
:7 For none of us lives
to himself, and no one dies to himself.
Keep in mind that Paul is addressing believers. He’s making a generalization,
that believers live their lives for the Lord, to be pleasing to the Lord.
:8 For if we live, we
live to the Lord; and if we die, we die to the Lord. Therefore, whether we live
or die, we are the Lord’s.
:9 For to this end Christ
died and rose and lived again, that He might be Lord of both the dead and the
living.
rose – anistemi
(“again” + “to stand”) – to cause to rise up,
raise up
lived again – anazao
(“again” + “to live”) – live again, recover life
:9 that He might be Lord of
both the dead and the living
He might be Lord – kurieuo
– to be lord of, to rule, have dominion over
Jesus’ death and resurrection make Him “Lord”.
Fellow servants don’t judge one another.
That’s the job of their “Lord”.
:10 But why do you judge
your brother? Or why do you show contempt for your brother? For we shall all
stand before the judgment seat of Christ.
:10 why do you judge your brother?
judge – krino – 5th
time for the word
:10 Or why do you show contempt for your brother?
show contempt – exoutheneo
(“out of” + “nothing”) – to make of no account, despise utterly; Same word as
“despise” in verse 3.
:10 we shall all
stand before the judgment seat of Christ
stand before – paristemi
(“alongside” + “to stand”) – to place beside or near; to present; to
present a person for another to see and question
judgment seat – bema – a step; a raised place mounted by steps; of the official
seat of a judge;
Caesarea was the political center of Israel in Paul’s day. I’ve heard of two possible locations of where
Herod had his “bema”.
One was in the
theater.
The other was
in the praetorium, next door to Herod’s palace that overlooked the
Mediterranean.
Lesson
The Judgment Seat of Christ
This judgment seat is not to determine whether or not we go to heaven, but to determine our rewards
when we’re in heaven. It is where our
deeds are judged after having become a Christian.
(2 Corinthians 5:10 NKJV)
—10 For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, that
each one may receive the things done in the body, according to what he
has done, whether good or bad.
Paul talks about our lives being like a
build on a foundation.
When we accept Jesus as our Savior, God lays a foundation in our
life. What we do with our lives after that is the
building that we build. It’s the
building we build that will be judged.
(1 Corinthians 3:12–15
NKJV) —12 Now if anyone builds on this foundation with gold, silver,
precious stones, wood, hay, straw, 13 each one’s work will become clear;
for the Day will declare it, because it will be revealed by fire; and the fire
will test each one’s work, of what sort it is. 14 If anyone’s work which he has built on it endures, he will receive a reward. 15 If anyone’s
work is burned, he will suffer loss; but he himself will be saved, yet so as
through fire.
God’s method of
judging our works will be to put them through the fire. Whatever survives the fire of God’s judgment
is worth keeping. Whatever burns up is
worth losing.
What’s the difference between a “gold”
kind of work and a “stubble” kind of work?
It’s our
motives.
The best motive to do anything, the
motive that will produce rewards in heaven, is love:
(1 Corinthians 13:1–3
NKJV) —1 Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not
love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal. 2 And though I have the gift of
prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all
faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3 And though I
bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be
burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing.
Ultimately, if we
don’t do things out of love, then it’s worthless.
What’s the point of Paul mentioning
this?
Because it’s JESUS who will judge other believers, not
me.
:11 For it is
written: “As I live, says the Lord,
Every knee shall bow to Me, And every tongue shall confess to God.”
:11 Every
knee shall bow to Me
Paul is quoting
from Isaiah 45:23.
(Isaiah 45:23 NKJV) —23
I have sworn by Myself; The word has gone out of My mouth in righteousness, And
shall not return, That to Me every knee
shall bow, Every tongue shall take an oath.
Paul also quotes this in Phil. 2:8-11.
confess – exomologeo
– to confess; to profess; acknowledge openly and joyfully; give praise to
:12 So
then each of us shall give account of himself to God.
account – logos
– a word; matter under discussion, account as in a bookkeeping ledger
:13 Therefore let us not
judge one another anymore, but rather resolve this, not to put a stumbling
block or a cause to fall in our brother’s way.
:13 not to put a stumbling
block
stumbling block – proskomma
– a stumbling block; an obstacle in the way which if one strikes his foot against he stumbles or falls
cause to fall – skandalon
(“scandal”) – the movable stick or trigger of a trap, a trap stick; any
person or thing by which one is (entrapped) drawn into error or sin
We’ll talk more about this in a minute.
:13 let us
not judge one another anymore, but rather resolve…
judge – krino – 6th
time for the word
resolve – krino – 7th
time for the word
Lesson
Let Jesus do the judging
(keyword)
Part of the influence of Rome upon the world in
Paul’s day was that Rome had spread its love for the “games”. Many cities around the world had their
smaller versions of the Roman Coliseum, where cities would have various types
of competition, some purely athletic, others quite violent and deadly. The average person in the Roman Empire knew
of the picture of an athlete standing before the king or judge to receive their
prize.
This is not the exact picture of us though.
Usually the gladiator does what the emperor says.
And in our case, Jesus is the one who is merciful,
while we usually prefer to chop off heads.
For us, the king that we are going to
stand before is no earthly king, it will be Jesus. We will all stand before Him.
Let Jesus take care of the judging of
other Christians in these “gray” areas.
Illustration
Warren Wiersbe writes,
Two of the most famous
Christians in the Victorian Era in England were Charles Spurgeon and Joseph Parker, both of them mighty preachers of the Gospel. Early in their
ministries they fellowshipped and even exchanged pulpits. Then they had a
disagreement, and the reports even got into the newspapers. Spurgeon accused
Parker of being unspiritual because he attended the theater. Interestingly
enough, Spurgeon smoked cigars, a practice many believers would condemn. Who was right?
Who was wrong? Perhaps both
of them were wrong!
When it comes to
questionable matters in the Christian life, cannot dedicated believers disagree
without being disagreeable? “I
have learned that God blesses people I disagree with!” a friend of mine
told me one day, and I have learned the same thing. When Jesus Christ is Lord,
we permit Him to deal with His own servants as He wishes.
St. Augustine
put it this way: “In essentials, unity; in nonessentials, liberty; in all
things, charity.”
14:14-23 Walk in
Love
:14 I know and am
convinced by the Lord Jesus that there is nothing unclean of itself; but
to him who considers anything to be unclean, to him it is unclean.
:14 am convinced …there
is nothing unclean
unclean
– koinos – common; ceremonially
unclean
In the Old Testament, “unclean” is close, but not quite sin. Unclean things might be foods you were not to
eat, people with certain diseases,
but not necessarily outright sin. An
“unclean” person was not allowed to come into the Tabernacle.
An “unclean” person was supposed to stay away from other people.
nothing
– I don’t think Paul is making a blanket statement here. After all, sin is sin. Don’t pervert this passage to say that
there’s nothing “unclean” about internet pornography. In the context of the passage, Paul is
talking about food.
convinced
– peitho – to be persuaded; to
believe; have confidence
It’s a perfect tense, something that’s happened in
the past but the effects continue on
into the present. Paul was persuaded a
while back, and he’s still persuaded.
:14 to him who
considers anything to be unclean
considers
– logizomai – to reckon, compute; count up or weigh the reasons, to deliberate
Here’s our “accounting”, “logical” word.
God’s
definition of “unclean” changes in the New Testament.
When Jesus was confronted about the issue of what to eat and becoming
unclean, He said,
(Mark 7:18–19 NLT) —18 “Don’t you understand either?” he asked. “Can’t you see that the
food you put into your body cannot defile you? 19 Food doesn’t
go into your heart, but only passes through the
stomach and then goes into the sewer.” (By saying this, he declared that every
kind of food is acceptable in God’s eyes.)
I don’t think this entirely eliminates the Levitical Law of what foods were to
be eaten and which were not. But Jesus
is saying that it does not affect your relationship with God.
There is still some
great value to the Levitical Laws. One
of the big things that was forbidden was the eating of “fat”.
The “fat” belonged to God. My cardiologist also
tells me to avoid fat.
And to be honest, I
don’t have a problem with the laws against eating some foods like vultures and buzzards
(Lev. 11:13), bats
(Lev. 11:19), and “winged
insects that walk” (Lev. 11:20).
Peter had an encounter with “unclean” things that changed him as well:
(Acts 10:10–15 NKJV) —10 Then he became very hungry and wanted to eat; but while they made
ready, he fell into a trance 11 and saw heaven opened and an object like a great sheet bound at the
four corners, descending to him and let down to the earth. 12 In it were
all kinds of four-footed animals of the earth, wild beasts, creeping things,
and birds of the air. 13 And a voice came to him, “Rise, Peter; kill and eat.” 14 But Peter said, “Not so, Lord! For I
have never eaten anything common or unclean.” 15 And a voice spoke to him again the second time, “What God
has cleansed you must not call common.”
After this vision, Peter had some visitors sent from the
Gentile Cornelius, asking Peter to come and speak to them at Caesarea. When Peter arrived at Caesarea, he told
Cornelius,
(Acts 10:28 NKJV) —28 Then he said to them, “You know how unlawful it is for a Jewish man
to keep company with or go to one of another nation. But God has shown me that
I should not call any man common or unclean.
Peter’s vision was about more than food. It was really about people.
Even though the truth is there is nothing “unclean”, Paul’s point is that
when a person thinks something is unclean, then it’s
as good as if it were actually unclean.
Some people don’t have a problem watching some things on TV. They find some shows entertaining on TV,
though some are not so good for your brain.
Some people that feel they can’t have a TV in
their house because TV is evil.
:15 Yet if
your brother is grieved because of your food, you are no longer walking
in love. Do not destroy with your food the one for whom Christ died.
Remember that “stumbling block” in verse 13? We’re going to see a little more about what
that’s all about.
:15 if your brother
is grieved because of your food
grieved
– lupeo – to make sorrowful; offend
:15 you are no
longer walking in love
love – agape – love based on a choice to value
another person.
Lesson
Reasons to say “no”
Why should I say “no” to doing
something in the “gray” area?
1. Conscience
That’s the issue in verse 14. If you are having a hard time getting
yourself to eat roasted bat wings, just because you know all food is “clean”,
doesn’t mean that you should be eating it!
If you have a struggle with your conscience about drinking alcoholic
beverages, even though you realize that the Scripture allows it (as long as you aren’t getting drunk), then you shouldn’t be
doing it.
2. Bondage
(1 Corinthians 6:12 NKJV) —12 All things are lawful for me, but
all things are not helpful. All things are lawful for me, but I will not be
brought under the power of any.
Keep in mind here that
we’re still talking about the things that fall into the “gray” areas. I don’t think you can twist Paul’s words to
say that “all things are lawful” could cover something like immorality. Paul makes it very clear in this very same passage that there are some things
that aren’t negotiable (1Cor. 6:9,14).
There may be some things that are
perfectly fine for you to do. But the
question is, can you stop? Does this thing bring you into it’s power? People say, “Oh, I can
quit any time.” But can you? Do you have
to do it?
If there is something
other than Jesus Christ in control of your life, then something’s wrong. This often requires that we need to die to
something in our life, to be “crucified” to it.
A.W. Tozer said,
“In every Christian’s
heart there is a cross and a throne. And
the Christian is on the throne until he puts himself on the cross. If he refuses the cross, he remains on the
throne.”
Does the thing have
control over you? Put Jesus on the
throne and yourself on the cross.
3. Profitability
(1 Corinthians 10:23 NKJV) —23 All things are lawful for me, but
not all things are helpful; all things are lawful for me, but not all things edify.
There are lots of things that we can be spending our time doing.
The question is, “is it profitable”? Is it worth spending time doing? Does it build you up? Does it build others up?
I kind of wonder if
sometimes we need to be a little careful here.
Some of us are very good at laying guilt trips on ourselves. We can fall into a trap of thinking that only
hard work is profitable and never learn to take a rest. God says that He created the Sabbath for our
sakes, because we needed rest.
4. Love
That’s the issue here in verse 15.
(1 Corinthians 13:5 NKJV) …(love)
does
not seek its own
A person exercising agape love does not concern themselves
with their own needs before they are concerned with the needs of others.
(Philippians 2:3–4 NKJV) —3 Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in
lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself. 4 Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also
for the interests of others.
A person who is
learning to walk in agape won’t be
thinking things like, “Well I have a right to this!”
Many of the problems
we encounter in our relationships with one another occur because we are
thinking selfishly, we are thinking only about ourselves, and we trample on
those around us.
Some people would hold to the idea that
what they are doing is actually permissible. It may be permissible, but it’s not loving.
(1
Corinthians 8:1 NLT) —1 Now regarding your question about
food that has been offered to idols. Yes, we know that “we all have knowledge”
about this issue. But while knowledge makes us feel important, it is love that
strengthens the church.
:16 Therefore
do not let your good be spoken of as evil;
:16 your good be
spoken of as evil
be spoken of
as evil – blasphemeo – blaspheme;
to be evil spoken of, reviled, railed at
(Romans 14:16 NLT) —16 Then you will not be criticized for
doing something you believe is good.
The “good” things we have are the
things we have a liberty to be doing.
These things are “good” to us.
But when we abuse our freedom by causing others to stumble, we cause
them to speak badly of our liberty. Sometimes we can make people curse God.
Lesson
My actions can lead others to
blasphemy.
We may not ever actually blaspheme with
our own mouths, but our actions might legitimately cause others to curse God.
When David had committed adultery and
murder with Bathsheba, he was confronted by the prophet Nathan –
(2 Samuel 12:13–14 NKJV) —13 So David said to Nathan, “I have
sinned against the Lord.” And Nathan
said to David, “The Lord also has
put away your sin; you shall not die. 14 However,
because by this deed you have given great occasion to the enemies of the Lord to blaspheme, the child
also who is born to you shall surely die.”
In Romans, the case is not so much
outright sin, but because we might cause others to stumble in acting against
their convictions.
:17 for the
kingdom of God is not eating and drinking, but righteousness and peace and joy
in the Holy Spirit.
:17 righteousness
and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit
righteousness – dikaiosune
– state of him who is as he ought to be, righteousness, the condition
acceptable to God
peace – eirene
– peace, between individuals, inner peace
joy – chara
– joy, gladness
Lesson
Focus on the right things
Too often we get sidetracked with
little, tiny, inconsequential issues.
What’s important is that we find life
in the Holy Spirit.
Illustration
I’ve
been to baseball games with family
members who aren’t really into baseball.
They bring books to read. They
spend their time on FaceBook.
If it’s a close game,
nothing matches the excitement of coming from behind and it’s the bottom of the
9th inning – two outs, down by one run, men on second and third
base, the batter goes to a full count, then hits a bloop single into right field scoring the
runners and winning the game. The high fives, the crowd goes wild.
Except for the person
busy taking selfies and looking for another popcorn.
They miss what the ballgame is all about.
Sometimes in church we get so
sidetracked about little issues like criticizing other people in the church,
what’s wrong with this, what’s wrong with that.
Maybe we ought to be a little more focused on getting excited about what
God is doing???
Illustration
One pastor writes,
Several years
ago, on a Saturday before Easter in another city, I was struggling under how to
try to preach the Easter message to all the varied people who would gather. How
do I tell that news? I was out with my children
wanting to take some quality time with them.
But I was burdened under this sermon, and the kids
were flitting away like butterflies
on the loose, way down the road as we were walking through the neighborhood.
Suddenly they called out my name. The shield went up a little bit, and they
said, “Daddy, can you do this?” I looked, and my kids were skipping along the
road. “Yeah, I can do that,” I said, and went back to pondering this
theological treatise.
And they said, “No, Daddy, can you? I mean, really, can you go skipping? We’ve
never seen you.”
“Well, of course, I can go skipping. Everybody’s been skipping.” “Well ...”
You know what they said: “Then show us.”
I hate to be beaten by the kids. But I couldn’t go
skipping. I’m an adult, and I have a doctorate degree, and I pastor First
Church, and we have members who live in this neighborhood. Neighborhood
associations are worried enough when a preacher moves into town. It makes
prices volatile in the neighborhood. But if he goes skipping around, well, that
does it. I couldn’t do that. What did they say? “Na-na-na-na-na. You can’t do
it.” So I looked around, then I did it.
I can’t remember why I ever stopped skipping as a child. It’s not hard on your knees.
It’s easier than jogging, and you can get a lot of distance. Maybe it’s because
adults just aren’t that happy any more, not that
carefree. Unless they get hold of Easter. Unless Easter gets hold of them.
Allen Walworth,
"Running through the Cemetery," Preaching Today, Tape No. 151
All this is found in “the Holy Spirit”.
God’s desire is that we focus on what
the Holy Spirit has for us.
:18 For he who
serves Christ in these things is acceptable to God and approved
by men.
:18 he who
serves Christ in these things
Things like righteousness and peace and joy
Things like not causing others to
stumble.
Lesson
A better witness
Our goal isn’t to “impress” people, but to
“impact” them.
When they see that we care enough for
others to limit our own freedoms, they begin to get a taste of what Jesus is
all about. It’s all about His love.
(John 13:34–35 NKJV) —34 A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I
have loved you, that you also love one another. 35 By this all
will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.”
That’s how people see
we’re connected to Jesus is by how we love each other, not how we judge each
other.
:19 Therefore
let us pursue the things which make for peace and the things by which
one may edify another.
:19 the
things by which one may edify another
Lesson
Building up or tearing down?
(Ephesians 4:29 NIV) —29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come
out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according
to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.
It’s too often that we are just good at
criticizing one another. We need to work
at encouraging each other.
Illustration
A dog walks
into a butcher shop with a purse strapped around his neck. He walks up to the meat case and calmly sits
there until it’s his turn to be helped.
A man, who was already in the butcher shop, finished his purchase and
noticed the dog. The butcher leaned over the counter and asked the dog what it
wanted today. The dog put its paw on the glass case in front of the ground
beef, and the butcher said, “How many pounds?”
The dog barked twice, so the butcher made a package of two pounds ground
beef. He then said, “Anything
else?” The dog pointed to the pork
chops, and the butcher said, “How many?”
The dog barked four times, and the butcher made up a package of four pork chops. The dog then walked around behind the
counter, so the butcher could get at the purse.
The butcher took out the appropriate amount of money and tied two
packages of meat around the dog’s neck.
The man, who had been watching all of this, decided to follow the dog.
It walked for several blocks and then walked up to a house
and began to scratch at the door
to be let in. As the owner opened the door, the man said to the owner, “That’s
a really smart dog you have there.” The
owner said, “He’s not really all that smart. This is the second time this week
he forgot his key.”
Illustration
Jesus arrived at the gates of a certain city, and he
sent his disciples forward to prepare supper while he himself walked through
the streets into the marketplace. He saw, at the corner of the market, some
people gathered together looking at some object, and
he drew near to see what it might be.
It was a dead dog with a halter round his neck, by which he
appeared to have been dragged through the dirt, and a viler, more abject, more
unclean thing never met the eyes of man.
“Ugh!” said one, holding his nose, “It pollutes the air!”
“How long,” said another, “will this
foul beast offend our sight?”
“Look at his torn hide,” said a third.
“You couldn’t even cut a shoe out of it.”
“And his ears,” said a fourth, “all
bedraggled and bleeding.”
Jesus looked down compassionately on
the dead creature said, “Pearls are not equal to the whiteness of his teeth.”
The people turned to him with amazement
and said among themselves, “Who is this? This must be Jesus of Nazareth, for
only he could find something to pity and approve even in a dead dog.” Ashamed,
they bowed their heads and went each on his way.
Charles Spurgeon
What do you say about your dog? How about your friends? How about the people you work with?
:20 Do
not destroy the work of God for the sake of food. All things indeed are
pure, but it is evil for the man who eats with offense.
:20 Do not
destroy the work of God for the sake of food
destroy – kataluo – to dissolve, disunite; to
destroy, demolish
When a person abuses their freedom to
do a certain thing in the “gray” area, instead of bringing peace and building
others up, they are dissolving and destroying the Body of Christ.
We would consider it an outrage if someone defaced
a great work of Rembrandt or Michelangelo. How much more if we destroy the work of God
Himself?
:20 but it
is evil for the man who eats with offense
offense
– proskomma – a stumbling block
Even though
there is nothing wrong with eating things, if you do it to cause another person
to stumble, then it becomes wrong.
I may be convinced that I can drink alcohol (which I’m not), and go out and “have a few beers” with my friends. But if I cause a brother who is struggling to
have victory over alcohol to stumble, then my drinking is WRONG.
:21 It is good
neither to eat meat nor drink wine nor do anything by which your brother
stumbles or is offended or is made weak.
Be careful about doing things that you know might cause another person to
stumble. Out of love, not out of
legalism.
:22 Do you have faith?
Have it to yourself before God. Happy is he who does not condemn
himself in what he approves.
:22 Do you have
faith? Have it to yourself before God.
There’s a sense in which my personal convictions
about the gray areas need to be my personal convictions. I shouldn’t be living
according to what others have as personal convictions.
But I also need to be honest with
myself in standing in God’s presence with these convictions.
Do you have your
personal convictions because it just happens to please your flesh? Do you have the freedom to go see “R” rated movies, because you
just want to see “R” rated movies? Or
could you honestly stand before God and watch your “R” rated movie? Only you and God know whether you’re being
honest about it.
:22 Happy is he who does not condemn himself
It’s a truly happy person who doesn’t
do things that their own conscience tells them not to do.
:23 But he who
doubts is condemned if he eats, because he does not eat from
faith; for whatever is not from faith is sin.
:23 he who
doubts is condemned if he eats
Pastor Chuck Smith:
“It’s wrong to talk someone out of his
convictions. When a person is pressured to act against his convictions, he
feels condemned before God. His conscience will whip him, and Satan will take
full advantage of his feelings. He’ll try to make the weaker brother feel
alienated from God. Be wary of becoming an unwitting tool in Satan’s hands by
urging a brother to act against his convictions. Let everyone serve God
according to his own measure of faith.”
:23 whatever is
not from faith is sin
sin – hamartia – to miss the mark, to do or go wrong
Lesson
Live by your convictions
If you doubt, don’t.
There’s a balance needed here. There are times when a person’s convictions
are way out of hand. I know of people
who feel guilty about everything. If one of these people followed this
completely, they wouldn’t do anything.
As a general rule, this is a good principle to follow in making
decisions.
Illustration
The mighty Niagara
River plummets some 180 feet at the American and Horseshoe Falls. Before the
falls, there are violent, turbulent rapids. Farther upstream, however, where
the river’s current flows more gently, boats are able to
navigate. Just before the Welland River empties into the Niagara, a pedestrian
walkway spans the river. Posted on this bridge’s pylons is a warning sign for
all boaters: “Do
you have an anchor?” followed by, “Do you know how to use it?”
-- Paul Adams in Fresh
Illustrations for Preaching & Teaching (Baker), from the editors of
Leadership.
Following your
convictions, following after the things that you
have “faith” for, can be one of those anchors in life. Learn to follow your convictions now rather
than wait until you go over the falls that you were warned about with those
little inner promptings.
The second half of the project was due today.
13:8-10 Love fulfills
13:11-14 Put on Christ
14:1-13 Weaker Brothers
14:14-23 Walk in Love
Homework
Memorize Romans 13:4
(Romans 13:4 NKJV) For he is
God’s minister to you for good. But if you do evil, be afraid; for he does not
bear the sword in vain; for he is God’s minister, an avenger to execute
wrath on him who practices evil.
Prayer Request
Quick Quiz
God wants you to make it
Let Jesus do the judging
The Big
Projects
The Pericope
Project is due today
This week I
want you to take the “Where is it?” test.
Be sure you take it before our last class because it won’t be available
after that. You will have ½ hour to take
the test once you start. It is multiple
choice. You may take the test with your
Pericope Projects before you…
Questions will be something like, “In what chapter is Jesus compared to
Adam? You will have three
chapter choices to choose from.
NKJV Recording
Project Due next week.
Record yourself reading out loud the entire book of Romans. I prefer NKJV, but you can read any version
if you prefer. Upload your mp3 file to Populi.
Class
Presentations next week (5 minute devotional on a
favorite passage)
I will do a short teaching time at the beginning of class and then you will
all take turns after the break sharing your 5 minute
devotionals.
I want you to share 5 minutes on a passage that has impacted you this
semester. Prepare as if you were going
to share a short devotional before an adult (or better, a Jr. High) Bible Study
group. You may use PowerPoint if you
wish, but don’t have to.